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anal play for straight guys Hi, I'm just curious to see how people feel about this issue (especially men). I, myself feel that a man enjoying anal stimulation in no way means that he is a "closet homosexual", or just hasn't admitted to himself that he is gay. Is it strange for a straight male to enjoy anal stimulation? While anal play may be considered kinky and somewhat taboo it's a sexual practice that more than a few men and women, regardless of sexual orientation, enjoy. In men, this potent pleasure point is the prostate, which is found inside their anal canal. I fee most straight men actually enjoy having there asses played with too, but won't admit it! There is nothing hotter than a masculine straight guy that has an anal induced orgasm and shoots his hot fresh load all over himself! Do guys wonder if they are bi/gay to like that so much |
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7/6/2009 5:39 am |
I do not believe that a straight male likes anal play. A clever signature line...
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Well, what you say is true - sadly that point of view - held by the majority - that any enjoyment from anal stimulation means theyre gay or bi etc is such a misnomer. Also sadly a fact of uninformed humanity. The most ancient of texts ie the karma sutra and earlier things seem to depict the taking of pleasure from erogenous zones to be a good thing - and erogenous zones are many and varied - and DO include the anus and prostate stimulation areas..... The mindset of closed mindedness regarding sexuality and sensuality is so widespread and also so sad - I found, a long time ago, that venturing past the publics perceptions of boundaries was a gratifying experience indeed - it allowed to enjoy sex in a way which I believed existed but wasnt sure of how to attain. To attain milestones like the concept of the 1000 Stroke orgasm, being able to differentiate between ejaculation and orgasm and further along - multiple orgasms. All told an experience which was started by journeying past the boundaries and letting myself enjoy whatever it was i felt like enjoying and not letting some silly little "taboo" like the anus being only used by gays and the like for pleasure..... Chris Don't do anything I wouldnt do! 
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1 post 7/6/2009 8:49 am |
as a straight man who has had my gf play around a little, penetration does nothing for me. a little rubbing and teasing is nice sometimes, but not everytime. i do enjoy a little rimming along with a blow/handjob. as far as making it gay, i dont think it is. if it is another guy doing it, that may raise some questions. if it is between a man and woman, anything they consent to is fine. i am in no position to judge anyone. as long as everyone is old enough and it doesnt break any laws (lol), it should be fine with no titles/accusations attached to it.
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I think we are too quick to apply labels to people. Not everyone enjoys the same things. Assess are just another part of the body. Some people like ass play (male or female) and some don't. Don't think that it has anything to do with straight/bi/gay. Just my opinion.
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OK.... I will be honest here... I am very straight, not interested in male, but not homophobia, so in group sex party, I am fine, once in a while, male body can touch mine occationally... For anal pleasure, yes, it is great pleasure, I bought one of those prostate massager called ANEROS, which gives me almost endless orgasmic feeling continueously... but I have no intention to replace ANEROS with real penis..
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I enjoy anal stimulation, don't think of it as gay, just like it.
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7/12/2009 7:22 am |
Hey Seek, Any guy who thinks that anal play is only a gay pleasure "methinks protesteth too much" Anal play is big fun with toys and fingers and.....in the right company...more! And yes I am str8 but more interested in great sex for everyone.
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Personally I think this subjective. Based on the timing and situation anything can feel great! Having had the joyous opportunity to experience the lubed rubber glove, bend over and spread and oh yeah try to relax moments from several doctors I can honestly say I find no enjoyment from that. On another day, with a sexy woman between my legs, giving me great oral sex, her slipping a lubed finger in the same place is as erotic as hell! It's the same ass, the same instrument, but totally different results. What is different? The situation. Had the hot female doctor decided to fondle me for a few minutes first I might have enjoyed the medical exam a lot more. We have found that, give the right situation and right level of arousal, anything can heighten the sexual experience. Painting the inside of the house is work. Try adding an attractive partner and do it nude, it's a whole different outlook on it. Or how many people would enjoy the feel of sweaty smelly feet, fresh from old tennis shoes, rubbed all over your body (trust me, I don't actually want to know!) But those same feet, washed and soaked in a hot tub, can do some very stimulating things under that bubbly water. It seems to me to be about the same with anal play! PS: If you try nude house painting always have extra drop clothes around!
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7/26/2009 10:26 am |
Ive never cum so hard in my life whan my wife gets a finger or two up there. If its between a man and a woman, how could it ever be gay? It is just an extension of pleasure that many miss out on. The wife loves things up there, sometimes she will cum just as hard from anal sex as getting it in the pussy.
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I have never been homophobic, as far as anal stimulation goes, it is wonderful when she teasingly ,slowly , inserts not an overly large object. We prefer a butt plug, just enough stimulation to get me off!! Light finger stimulaton, or a tongue up my anus devine!! Just as you enjoy it , so do we!! I also think that our sphincters are extremely sensitive due to the fact that we really are not used to having large objects up our anus!! I think males have to be comfortable with their own sexuality. And it is of upmost importance to have the right partner to share those special moments, to reach the heights of pleasure , that we know that can be achieved. Enjoy the voyage!!
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I do not believe that a straight male likes anal play.
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1/5/2010 10:29 am |
Hi Cumseek, I tried that. And i will... Realy; anal play is big fun. Also with toys and fingers. But finding right person is important... Some guys get pleasure with anal play without thinking that this is bad for society...some guys said that`s bad... I am straight but more interested in different sex for all; if that`s not dangereous. Finally; I`m very interested in making it with you. Call me please...(  Big funs and wishes...
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6/26/2010 6:27 pm |
geez sex is for pleasure everywhere u want it. just because u might like getting rimmed, fingered and prostate rubbed doesnt mean a guy is gay. this is real old nowadays. Yours truly Softmounds
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1 post 12/1/2010 4:27 pm |
Hi, interesting post and I'm glad you brought it up...there are such strange attitudes about what is gay or straight in our society and if it's okay - i.e. the guys who are most vocally against anything "gay" are also huge fans of lesbian porn... For myself, I had an life-altering experience that I posted about on my own blog. Only three posts so it's easy to find. I'd encourage all men to read it and then see if they aren't a little interested!
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1 post 10/19/2011 1:16 pm |
To be honest I love it when my wife plays with my ass, rubs it slides a finger in it and then yes she has fucked me ... and I loved it, we do pretty much anything together and that is just fun.
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We absolutley love anal play, my husband loves being filled and his orgasms are amazing!
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I think all guys go through this phase of thinking that anal stimulation is "gay" and that liking it makes you a little suspect. Then comes the revelation that it feels really good. My ex wife slipped a vibrator up my butt when I as in my 20's. Damn but I was hooked after that but I kept discussions of liking it close to my own vest. Maybe it's an age thing but the popularity of guys getting penetrated anally sure seems to be growing. Just do a search for strap-on and you'll find so many toys/models it will make you head spin.
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