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Blogs > Rosebud322 > Who Knows?

Married Men and Lies!!!  

Rosebud322 50F
190 posts
5/15/2008 5:10 pm

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8/3/2008 12:27 pm
Married Men and Lies!!!

There are to many men on this site...who are just complete liars. If you want to cheat on your wife...fine that is your business but to bring someone else into it unknown that is wrong!!!

I have been on this site for over a year now. And I have met some wonderful people. Husbands and wives who play together which I think is great. And even have met some guys who play without their wives but their wives know are ok with it that is fine too.

I have no problem with married men...never have as long as they are up front with me about it and don't lie to me. I can't stand to be lied to. But what I hate even more...that goes along with that...is having the choice taken away from me. If I'm going to be with a married man then that should be my choice to make, not his!!!

The reason I'm so pissed off tonight and writing this is today I got a call from a woman asking me why my number shows up on her bill as texting and calling her husband. When I finally figure out who the number was, since I have not talked or seen her husband in months. I figure out who it was and this guy told me he was single. Never told me he was married. The wife was not upset with me, she just wanted the truth. The truth her husband wouldn't give her. She had made four other calls before me to other girls who told her the same thing I did. We didn't know he was married. She has called me two other times since then. The last call she was really upset...crying upset. I felt so bad for bad and felt bad for her. It was not my fault, I didn't know but still felt bad about it.

He took that choice from me. If he had told me and then I made the choice to do it anyways then I deserves to feel bad about it. But I did not make that choice. With him I believe I would have choose not to go there. And most time that is the choice I will make...if the wife doesn't know I won't go there. But I won't lie and say that I have never made the choose to go there anyways even when I have known the truth. But that was my choice.

What do you think? Do you think he was wrong for not giving me the choice? Given the choice would you go there anyways?

Hmmmm...interesting question I think. But even though this is titled Married Men and Lies...I would like to know what you men think too. Some women are not better.


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woody7215 70M
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5/16/2008 2:41 pm

 I believe that he should have been upfront and honest. Not telling the whole truth will come back and bite him in the ass. Sure his wife was upset he was playing around on her. Your choice was taken away and from here you'll probably look at it differently from now on.


Rosebud322 replies on 5/18/2008 2:16 pm:
Very true there...woody!

morganswetride 46M/44F

5/15/2008 5:29 pm

 for some reason i have a silly little face there instead of an I oops
{=} BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER{=}


Rosebud322 replies on 5/18/2008 2:19 pm:
I have done that myself.

sensualsatiation 114F
4789 posts
5/15/2008 5:29 pm

 OOOoohhhhhh!!! .....trying to not get my soapbox out here....
You are absolutely correct he took the choice away from you!! 100% correct you are!!! And you are correct when you say women are no better. I've had the experience you've had, seeing a man and not knowing he was married only to learn from his wife he was. NOT a nice experience in any form. People lie, it is not gender biased. It is odd to me in a situation of 'no strings sex' that people will still lie. Take care of you...you seem someone who really has her head on her shoulders. This is not your issue. Remember, you were deceived. My best to you as you resolve this within you!


Rosebud322 replies on 5/18/2008 2:22 pm:
You are right, with 'no strings sex' why would they feel the need to lie. Oh well! She has not called me since that day. So, things seem to be going back to normal. I'm not going to let it get me to down. Like you and everyone else said it was not my fault. Thank you.

morganswetride 46M/44F

5/15/2008 5:27 pm

 I think it was very wrong of him not to be upfront and honest with you, I myself have on my profile that we (my husband and are not interested in helping married people cheat man or woman. I wouldn't want to be put in your situation ever with having someones significant other call me. I am sorry that you had to go through that.
{=} BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER{=}


Rosebud322 replies on 5/18/2008 2:18 pm:
I'm sorry, I did too. The woman called me three time. She seemed really nice too. Someone I might have been friends with, if things were different.

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