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Timewasters.....  

endofnever 61M/55F
31 posts
9/17/2012 1:20 pm
Timewasters.....


Okay, time to vent again!

We have just spent a weekend away from home hoping for the greatest mfm experience we'd ever had. It's cost us an obscene amount of money in traveling and hotel expenses, a lot of time looking for the right guys, communicating with them and waiting for them to confirm, and a whole weekend away from our - not that it wouldn't have been worth it if we'd actually had the weekend we were hoping for.

Yet again, we were let down time and again by guys showing interest then saying they couldn't make it - sometimes with only a day or so to go. In their defence tho, they at least had the decency to let us know in advance. Eventually the weekend arrived and we made our way to Branson MO in torrential rain! Not the kind of weather we would normally consider traveling in for two or more hours, but hey, we were going to have an awesome mfm!

We had been in touch with one guy and, thankfully, he was there on the dot. The other guy? We have no idea what happened to him. Mr. End chatted away to numerous guys while Mrs. End shared her jacuzzi tub funtime on cam. As luck would have it, we thought we had found a suitable replacement. Maybe the warning signs were there when, as soon as we said he could come on over, he suddenly remembered he had loads of paperwork to do first and would be about an hour. Oh well! Mrs. End and the other guy began to play and Mr. End carried out his camera man duties like a true professional. The second guy said he would be there in fifteen minutes, then he said he was only a couple of minutes away, then......nothing. He didn't show and we didn't hear another word from him.

Well, we still had fun. But it wasn't exactly what we had been looking forward to. Mr. End joined in the fun, too but there was much we were unable to try. Why do people do this? What pleasure do they get from messing good, horny folk around like this? Surely the thrills and excitement cannot be greater than actually turning up as promised and joining in the sexy fun? Or maybe we are missing something. I know we've complained about this before and I'm sure most people have experienced similar scenarios. But we find ourselves asking if it's really worth all the time, money and effort that we invest into planning these occasions. We have busy lives with our work and family, and what free time - and money - we get is very limited. We are beginning to feel there are better ways to spend it.

So, sorry to all the genuine people here who have been, or are interested in meeting us at some point, but it looks like the timewasters and assholes on this site have won. We are taking a break from playing and are seriously considering calling it a day completely. For now, we will be continuing to cam and chat, but nothing more and we will not be renewing our membership for the foreseeable future.

TeddyBear402009 74M
3 posts
9/17/2012 5:18 pm

Sorry things didn't work out for you Jo and Dave. Wish i was closer to you as i would love the opportunity. At least you had a little fun.


rm_5150pwr 51M
4 posts
9/17/2012 5:36 pm

thanks alot you jerks that messed this all up. For the ones like me that had a true interest in going but had prior committment as jo/dave already knew. these are nice people on top of it, to screw them over like you did is a joke.
Hey jo, hope you will still consider meeting myself at least in the near future. Talk to you guys soon.


endofnever 61M/55F
3 posts
9/17/2012 6:07 pm

Thanks blue_eyes_692u. For the record, this isn't our first mfm. We have had several and have been let down on every single one. We understand that mfm is not for everyone and that the reality is often a lot different to the fantasy. Our gripe is that people just let you down without any warning or explanation. If nerves are genuinely the reason, just say so. We are not unreasonable people, and we have been there ourselves. But to string us along and then disappear off the face of the earth is not the way to do it. It has become obvious that there are people who just like to mess people around.

Hi teddybear, thanks for your comment. Yes we did have fun with the guy who showed up and hopefully we will be able to meet up with him again.

5150pwr, you were one of the genuine people with a genuine reason for not being there. We understand it can be difficult to synchronize timetables and we appreciate people being honest with us from the start.


endofnever 61M/55F
3 posts
9/17/2012 6:10 pm

Hi Sean. You're right and those are the people we are talking about. And we know there are genuine guys out there....trouble is, most of em are too far away lol


tj4fun31 56M  
4 posts
9/20/2012 5:19 pm

It sucks you two didn't get the weekend you wanted and deserved. I really wish I was closer. I'd enjoy spending time with a great couple.


superstiffcock 64M
6 posts
9/21/2012 9:34 am

I am always amazed when I hear about this happening. The sad thing is this happens all over the country. When I was living in another state, I had a regular MFM with a couple I'd done business with. Our arrangment lasted for several years, before I moved to Arkansas. During those years, we had invited several men to join us on different occassions, just to have the experience of a MMFM and time after time...the same thing you experienced.

The sad thing for me is now that I'm here in Northwest Arkansas I'm experiencing the same thing while looking for a couple to meet. I've been through several series of emails, texts and phone conversations with couples who say they're looking for a third...but are never willing to follow through....I'm getting tired of looking and looking and not really finding anyone serious in this area...Don't know what to do???

Good luck, wishing you the best.


rm_nudebeachnsb 63M
1 post
9/28/2012 5:16 pm

Hi Endofnever I am so sad that some wannabe ashole has to discourage some of the finest people on this site.

I also agree with superstifcock and that I as well am feeling very frustration of wannabe's wasting my time. Most husbands just want you to chat and they get thier focks off and then thier gone.... think some type of bond or reporting system would make a great improvement to this site. Make it like ebay, I have had an account there since 95 with 100 % feedback make this site that accountable and everyone would be far better off... hey we could give out A++++++++ LMAO

Sorry for your pain and frustration your feeling Endof, I love seeing you on the cam in the afternoon... always makes my day when I get to see you clothed or not your just a real beauty and a real treat to us that are the real deal.

I would only ask for those of us that would charrish a couple like you that you dont through in the towel just yet but take a break maybe. Could I sugest on the next outting let the m or mm of the mmfm poney up for the room at least you know they have something invested. Please dont stop you are to fine of a lady not to share your beauty with the right person. Hope to see you soon


Etrayu3 41M

10/23/2012 11:44 pm

I need to fuck


gloryholelovers 54M/44F

10/28/2012 10:09 am

Boy howdy I understand nerves!!!


hardnlk69 67M

2/12/2018 1:46 pm

I had a mfm with a guy n his wife. It was a couple of years ago. It was good, nice motel, a married couple in there 50's.


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