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A First Time for Everything?
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I handle rejection with dignity. I know not everyone is going to be into me. We all have different tastes.
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We are alike in many ways. When I write to someone I'm interested in I am polite hopefully I'll get a response. Rather good or bad I look at it as at least they took the time to write me. If someone takes the time to write me and I'm not interested I send them a polite thank you but no thank you letter. I have never sent or will I a letter like the one you received. We both have to much class for that. We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious
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We are alike in many ways. When I write to someone I'm interested in I am polite hopefully I'll get a response. Rather good or bad I look at it as at least they took the time to write me. If someone takes the time to write me and I'm not interested I send them a polite thank you but no thank you letter. I have never sent or will I a letter like the one you received. We both have to much class for that.
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My response is: "Appreciate your interest, tho, I am going to decline. The best to you!" Then, I get "your loss", "you are fat and ugly", etc. Not sure why someone can't just accept a no interest without being ignorant. Some seem to think anonymity means amp up the douche-bagism. Sorry you had to deal with that crap ... *huggles* In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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My response is: "Appreciate your interest, tho, I am going to decline. The best to you!" Then, I get "your loss", "you are fat and ugly", etc. Not sure why someone can't just accept a no interest without being ignorant. Some seem to think anonymity means amp up the douche-bagism. Sorry you had to deal with that crap ... *huggles* Thank you for your support and the 'huggles'.
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How do I handle rejection? I simply move on ...
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How do I handle rejection? I simply move on ...
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7/6/2020 9:34 am |
Asking you to chat and being told thank you, but no, is hardly a "rejection" We men need to get over ourselves. You are not needing to deal with such bs. It is 'ADULT' Friend Finder. Wish more people would react that way. Best of luck in your search. Hope they are happier ones ahead.
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Actually, most of my experience on here has been quite the opposite. Men Do read my profile and will use something in it to start a conversation. What a waste of your time to mislead you with false information.
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Asking you to chat and being told thank you, but no, is hardly a "rejection" We men need to get over ourselves. You are not needing to deal with such bs. It is 'ADULT' Friend Finder. Wish more people would react that way. Best of luck in your search. Hope they are happier ones ahead.
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I have gotten a few and I just delete them and go on.
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I have gotten a few and I just delete them and go on.
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7/8/2020 6:01 am |
"Rejection" is easy to deal with on a first attempt at making contact. I know what I have to offer and if, from the profile, I think we could be a good match, I just tell myself that it is her loss for not trying to meet somebody new. Rejection after a relationship has started is a lot harder to get over, especially if it comes out of nowhere. That can take some time to get over. Stalking and being a total a&&hole will not make things better. You have to walk away.
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"Rejection" is easy to deal with on a first attempt at making contact. I know what I have to offer and if, from the profile, I think we could be a good match, I just tell myself that it is her loss for not trying to meet somebody new. Rejection after a relationship has started is a lot harder to get over, especially if it comes out of nowhere. That can take some time to get over. Stalking and being a total a&&hole will not make things better. You have to walk away.
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Thank you for dropping by and sharing your perspective. I agree that 'rejected' is a harsh word, hence I had put it in quotation marks. My issue with the whole situation was his reaction was uncalled for and crass. It was shocking as previously No One had responded to a basic and polite 'No Thank You' in that way.
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I think I forgot to ask, but "I shook my head thinking FFS! I craft an appropriate response," Why? He showed no reason to deserve a response and certain showed how little he was by blocking YOU?!? WTF, Over?!? Just curious why you would respond? [I]Da Focker!!
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I think I forgot to ask, but "I shook my head thinking FFS! I craft an appropriate response," Why? He showed no reason to deserve a response and certain showed how little he was by blocking YOU?!? WTF, Over?!? Just curious why you would respond?
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