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Full Disclosure I want to pose a few questions that I have been mulling over. Please share your thoughts. How much of your past sexual history should you share with a potential partner? Should you disclose all or just part? If asked direct questions and you fear a truthful response will be a deal breaker are you still truthful? How often do you feel a hook up has been less than honest? Is a lie of omission still a lie? I exchanged emails with a gentleman and it seemed to be going very well. When asked about my past sexual experiences I was extremely honest and shared all. He freaked out and went as far as closing his email account. The "Mailer Daemon" notified me of this when I emailed to ask if everything was ok because I had not heard back from him. A simple "I'm no longer interested" would have sufficed. I am not a stalker and I wouldn't have bothered him further. No means no in the swing world. I'm not sure exactly what part of my past upset him. I am supposing it is my enjoyment of bisexual men. Some straight men consider a woman "tainted" if she loves bi men. Maybe it was something else. I've been naughty but anyone looking for a hookup has been naughty to some degree. So I am rethinking the sharing of past history issue. I've always thought that honesty was the way to go because that is what I would want. But maybe just sharing extreme basics is enough. Not lying exactly but not the full truth. Thoughts? |
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Not sure of what any of the other men on Black Flirting do, but if I am asked a question, I answer it. Truthfully. Let the chips fall if they are going to. The questions that are asked are part of the learning process to see if there is a connection that is worth pursueing to the next level. I have never been one to worry about someone else's past. It's more about the now questions, i.e. what are your fantasies, what do you enjoy, how do you like things, etc.
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6/26/2012 7:15 pm |
If someone asks a question, they deserve an honest answer. Doesn't mean they're always prepared for it...
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5/9/2013 10:53 pm |
i am completely honest but then i am also one of these people who has had something like 20-25 partners in my life lol i tend to think with and act with my top head and it kinda throws people off
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