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Sexless marriage
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Sexless marriage Ok, it is hard becoming a cliche. Due to health issues, my wife has retired her vagina. The whoha on a shelf syndrome. Since she never used her other parts for sex, that means sex is over for us at this point. Now you learn why some prefer to marry a person who is substantially younger... It is mean to focus on your own needs when the other is more deprived. So you feel selfish for still being healthy. You can love your partner when she is sexually unavailable, but not love her sexually... We shared decades of sex, maybe not porno sex but still sex. Such is life. Sometimes if you live long enough you outlive your sex life I guess. I could be a rat like Newt Gingrinch and divorce her while she was in hospital being treated for cancer. But I think that is despicable behavior. So I masturbate and contemplate and procrastinate. What would you do? |
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I would talk to my spouse and share that I still had needs. Ask how they might want me to handle those needs. While being clear that endless masturbation was not the answer.
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I would stay in the marriage but then again, I would explain to my partner that I will get my needs met elsewhere. I can do that because I am now out as polyamorous. You might not have that option. I think there are ways for you to approach this to get permission or at least let her know what is happening with you, that you are still healthy and need an outlet. I plan on becoming a counselor for those kinds of marital issues. kk The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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In my case other forms of sex with my spouse are not really available. So I stay on the down low and do what I can to have a sex life of sorts.... Sometimes life is not optimized. Still I feel lucky that things have gone as well as they have for as long as they have. I know many worse off than me. I choose to remain wed even if the sex life between us is retired. You cannot have everything your own way in life. My wife knows I am not celibate, but it is not discussed, as that would be negative. People can be jealous even though not able to provide. Aesop knew about the dog in the manager.
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