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Kissing....kissing....and more kissing!  

She_Is_Looking 50F
89 posts
5/10/2014 7:02 pm
Kissing....kissing....and more kissing!


Okay, a quick little post as I sit here watching hockey...seems like the perfect time to talk about kissing.

I love kissing. Nothing can be a bigger turn on, or turn off than kissing. I have been fortunate enough to be with some pretty great kissers (thank goodness!) but have experienced some not so great kissing. These bad experience have been with both men and women and seem to lack the same PAPOW! They were too soft, not really present...kinda flat.

Now don't get me wrong! I do NOT like having my face chewed on, or a tongue shoved so far down my throat that it tweaks my gag reflex (and I try hard to control that!). But I am just not a fan of those soft, limp kisses...much like a limp handshake! There! That is it!!

Kissing is the sexual equivalent to a handshake! When you go for an interview, you need a confident, solid handshake...not sweaty, clammy or limp. The same can be said for a kiss!!! You need a confident kiss that tells (no...SHOWS) the person that you want to own them, own their body, their orgasms....oh helllllllz yes!

Kissing, when done right can almost bring me to orgasm...when done right, I am humping your thigh!

I think I am a good kisser (although I am sure everyone does) but I suppose I am only as good as the person I am kissing. Have I mentioned I love kissing?

Well, as I watch my team lose at hockey...I will wrap this up.
May all your kisses be confident...and your panties be damp
(or cock be twitchy)

OttawaMan43sum 53M
2220 posts
5/10/2014 7:07 pm

It still amazes me that some women aren't good at kissing. "Flat" is a great way to describe both the technique and the effect. I try to kiss sensually but the lady may not reciprocate due to lack of skills and/or passion.

Sometimes I think I should open up a kissing school. Would you be willing to sign up?


She_Is_Looking 50F
29 posts
5/10/2014 7:11 pm

Well, I would sign up as an instructor! I know about the surprise regarding kissing...but some people are out of practice or nervous...so I like to give it a few goes before I draw the line. Also, part of my issue is that I have a thing for teeth...I like nice teeth, clean and fresh breath. I am orally fixated! LOL!


OttawaMan43sum 53M
2220 posts
5/11/2014 5:29 am

If you'd like to sign up as an instructor, you'd first have to undergo an oral interview.

Personally, oral hygiene and great teeth are my strengths thanks to never smoking and being conscientious about them even when I'm dog tired. When I'm on the go, I consume a piece from those listerine packets. They're also handy during the intermission of a long kissing/fucking session.

If you ever want to see a pic of them, let me know.


JackScratch 48M
77 posts
5/11/2014 6:42 am

Funny you post this, I was just yesterday thinking about one of the sexiest times I had fooling around with a girl, me on top of her, both of us dressed, just making out and her slowly stroking me. The kissing was amazing...


She_Is_Looking 50F
29 posts
5/11/2014 5:24 pm

Jack! That is awesome!!! I love those experiences! Maybe its because I am turning 40 in a few days but man, makes me feel young, sexy and wanted! LOVE IT!


JackScratch 48M
77 posts
5/12/2014 10:59 am

Oh, I completely agree. Like revisiting one's youthful indiscretions. heh. Other ones that fall under that category are fooling around in a car, preferably something old and crappy. And one I thought of last year, I was housesitting for my folks and thought it would be fun to enjoy some awkward naked fumblings in their basement. hah


big_feetott 41M
18 posts
5/21/2014 2:08 pm

I agree with you kissing is amazing when two ppl that have a passion and know how to kiss lock lips. Sometimes I still wish I was in high school just so that I can play spin the bottle and experience a new kiss every turn, or making out on a couch like a over hormoned teenager.
I do also find it a bit of an art form and love to figure out what makes my partner squirm when lips are intertwined. It is almost addictive. Now here is a question for you how do you show someone that thinks they are a great kisser that in fact they suck?? If you figure that out let me know as that means kissing bad kisser days are done.


She_Is_Looking 50F
29 posts
5/24/2014 4:07 pm

oh big_feetott! That is the ultimate challenge!!! I have no idea...I have found myself avoiding kisses when that is the case...sigh. I love kissing but hate hurting peoples feelings.


big_feetott 41M
18 posts
5/27/2014 6:22 am

She_is_looking I know what you mean. For me it sucks when it is with someone older. I can come to terms to tell them hey this younger guy thinks your kissing sucks. I just slowly pull back and walk away as if nothing happened lol ( would never actually do that). I wish it was that easy. I guess the quest continues on how to nicely say to people your kissing sucks and is nowhere near as good as you think it is. Enjoy the day.


She_Is_Looking 50F
29 posts
6/5/2014 6:48 am

Big feet....hahahaha!!! Just walk away?!? Lmao! Thanks for the giggle!!!


ott4discreetfun 43M
14 posts
6/10/2014 7:41 am

She_Is_Looking....nice teeth and a good smile are a must, oh ya and fresh breath!! Would love to test those lips out sometime.....


nsafwblr 41M

7/8/2014 6:09 pm

Kissing sometimes can feel like...okay where is this going? Is she just cleaning my mouth or what!?

All that to say that your post on kissing makes me want to kiss! It's a very compelling write-up that you have.


BoumBoumXoX 49M
1 post
9/1/2014 1:09 pm

So true about kissing being the handhake in sexy encounters.
I love your blog !!


She_Is_Looking 50F
29 posts
9/1/2014 5:37 pm

love to see that so many love kissing as much as I do!!!


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giggy44 53M
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