Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service
Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now

The Fourteenth Virtual Symposium - First Dates – Some Advice  

khuXBFXM8u 62M
6260 posts
11/29/2015 8:43 am
The Fourteenth Virtual Symposium - First Dates – Some Advice

Greetings and salutations… this post is my contribution to the virtual symposium, edition # 14, which has been organized by humorlife. A list of other participants in this symposium can be found at Participants List For The Fourteenth Virtual Symposium First Dates.



First dates… they can be tricky, nerve wrecking, awkward, terrifying, and rousing. Lots of advice out there… tip top hygiene is a must, (important every date, and in your daily life); hair and make-up just right, and fellas don’t forget to check the shoes… ladies always look, so make sure they look good.

This is a big topic, so much to write about, and so much has already been written about this topic. I have even taken a stab in a previous [post blog]. Online, and in a few post in this symposium you will surely find advice on where to go; what to do; topics to keep the conversation moving and those to avoid… you know the ones, sex, politics and religion. Of course yours truly, ignores that advice and always looks for an opportunity to talk about politics, religion and mostly sex. It’s always nice to see what you’re working with early. Did I mention I like to fly in the face of conventional wisdom?

I’m always fascinated by some of the advice I find online… “How to give them that kiss that will drive them insane”; kissing is now a “paint by number” exercise. “Be honest – but don’t reveal too much”; “White lies that are ok to tell on a first date”, and of course lots more on the all-important goal of all this wonderful advise… how to get you a second date.

Let me propose advice that’s a little different. It’s radical… maybe too radical for some:

HAVE FUN! Isn’t that the whole point of the exercise, to have fun? Who wouldn’t want a second date with someone they had fun with?

That’s my two cents

Your thoughts


Find pleasure in giving pleasure


ERoosevelt 55F
299 posts
11/29/2015 8:58 am

Great advice for first dates, and every date afterward too. Life is too short not to have fun! Of course, it doesn't hurt that you're hot. Probably not supposed to flirt in a blog comment, but I'm just sayin' - would advice to "just have fun" on a first date sound as helpfull from my mother as from a hottie like you? Not sure. Either way, take the compliment (please) and have a great day!


veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
11/29/2015 9:09 am

I have had lots of second dates...but alas the third and fourth ones seem to elude me...LOL!

“Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh

Come and read my blog! Become a watcher!


veryfunnycple64


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
11/29/2015 9:24 am

Thank you

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
11/29/2015 9:32 am

    Quoting ERoosevelt:
    Great advice for first dates, and every date afterward too. Life is too short not to have fun! Of course, it doesn't hurt that you're hot. Probably not supposed to flirt in a blog comment, but I'm just sayin' - would advice to "just have fun" on a first date sound as helpfull from my mother as from a hottie like you? Not sure. Either way, take the compliment (please) and have a great day!
Thank you!

I must say, your petite frame would be ideal for a stand and carry. If there was no flirting allowed in blogs, I would have been banned from here a long time ago.

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


ERoosevelt 55F
299 posts
11/29/2015 9:50 am

    Quoting khuXBFXM8u:
    Thank you!

    I must say, your petite frame would be ideal for a stand and carry. /:> If there was no flirting allowed in blogs, I would have been banned from here a long time ago.
Whew! Glad you weren't offended by my comment! "A stand and carry" I have no idea what that means but it does sound amazing to my petite frame and very active imagination! Please feel free to describe it to me sometime


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
11/29/2015 10:30 am

A picture is worth a 1000 words, they say so.....

[image]

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
11/29/2015 11:32 am

Good advice!
Sometimes having fun when on a blind date is tricky! I had one blind date; we had absolutely nothing in common despite what a mutual friend thought. we agreed to end the date after an hour!


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
11/29/2015 11:54 am

Excellent post KHU.. love what you did write here.. Great contribution to the symposium too hugsssssssssss V

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
11/29/2015 12:18 pm

    Quoting veryfunnycple64:
    I have had lots of second dates...but alas the third and fourth ones seem to elude me...LOL!
I got nothing

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
11/29/2015 12:32 pm

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    Good advice!
    Sometimes having fun when on a blind date is tricky! I had one blind date; we had absolutely nothing in common despite what a mutual friend thought. we agreed to end the date after an hour!
Perhaps that is the best course of action on a poorly matched blind

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
11/29/2015 12:35 pm

    Quoting  :

"Just be yourself", what great advice!

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
11/29/2015 12:41 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Excellent post KHU.. love what you did write here.. Great contribution to the symposium too hugsssssssssss V
Thanks V, how are you?

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


ERoosevelt 55F
299 posts
11/29/2015 1:43 pm

    Quoting khuXBFXM8u:
    A picture is worth a 1000 words, they say so.....

    [image]
OMG!!!! Great picture. Worth 1000 words plus 3 additional words from me: SIGN ME UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
11/29/2015 1:51 pm

    Quoting  :

That why it's good to be me

Assuming shit, usually gets us in shit.

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
11/29/2015 1:54 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes... can't agree with you more Buni

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
11/29/2015 1:57 pm

    Quoting ERoosevelt:
    OMG!!!! Great picture. Worth 1000 words plus 3 additional words from me: SIGN ME UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm glad you like... operators are standing by.

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


pal334 69M  
45821 posts
11/29/2015 2:41 pm

I have read some of the symposia posts and noticed that the fun aspect is sparse. Well done

Please cum visit my blog,,,,,,,,,,,,pal334



keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
11/30/2015 5:54 am

That should work.

blog on!


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
11/30/2015 8:54 am

    Quoting pal334:
    I have read some of the symposia posts and noticed that the fun aspect is sparse. Well done
Thanks Pal.

On another note, it seems our numbers are dwindling... a few bloggers have deleted their profiles, and other seem to be as quiet as I have been.

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
11/30/2015 8:54 am

Yes, yes it will

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


NaughtyInSO 113F
9755 posts
11/30/2015 12:28 pm

Yes, FUN is the keyword. Who cares if we like the same color or have different tastes in music! If we have fun on a first date there will be a second one.

Visit my blog It's a Mad, Mad, Mad World of NaughtyInSO, leave a comment, become a watcher.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
LIVE AND LET LIVE Be happy!
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
11/30/2015 12:59 pm

    Quoting NaughtyInSO:
    Yes, FUN is the keyword. Who cares if we like the same color or have different tastes in music! If we have fun on a first date there will be a second one.
FUN is definitely the key.

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
11/30/2015 5:51 pm

    Quoting PerleDeSoie:
    Be yourself, This is the best way to be ....
    Bye !
agreed

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
12/1/2015 6:25 am

    Quoting  :

Lol.
A lot of women, especially those who obsess about shoe, judge men by the cleanliness and conditions of our footwear. If I understand it correctly it's about our attention to detail.

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
12/1/2015 7:39 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes sir

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


Become a member to create a blog