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When Guys Ask "Anyone Real"  

Cplforsingleguy 62M/60F
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24 posts
10/25/2014 1:12 pm
When Guys Ask "Anyone Real"

Recently we have come across a number of profiles with some form of the statement "Anyone Real?" Seriously? You think that will get folks to respond? To prove they are real?

We know quite a few couples that enjoy a date with a single male now and then. We almost all have the same comments - a good guy is very hard to fine. Weeding through the profiles is a bitch. Seems there are a large number of folks who either don't fill out their profile, don't have a single pic, or have only a junk pic and wonder why couples aren't flocking to them.

According to our friends we have talked with, here are a few hints on how to attract someone "real":

Have a complete TRUTHFUL profile. Do not falsely advertise. Recently we saw a profile we liked. Reached out. His profile had information on it that wasn't true - found out talking to him. IF you lie on your profile, you will lie to us. We know that. And we aren't interested.

Talk about what makes you you, and why a couple would have a good time with you. Don't be crude, rude or an ass. Come across as someone we would like to hang out with, and we may hang out!

Most couples we know (us included) value many other things over the junk. So using that as a profile pic is not a way to get the attention of most couples. We will grant you there are some seeking only the large endowment, but from the folks we know it really isn't something they seek. (We don't care. Period.)

For most of us, we do want to see a picture that can determine if you are someone we want to meet. We are drawn to clean shaven, clean cut guys. A few tats? No problem. On your neck/face? She is turned off. Someone else may be turned on, and they are the 'real' couple for you.

There are a lot of "Real" people out here. But we aren't going to respond or even contact you without a good feeling about who you are.

reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
11/2/2014 9:16 am

 It is hard to meet on here. Many do not fill out profiles. I love the ones that are 50 and are using some photo from 20 yrs before. Sometimes it does come down to taking a leap and meeting that other person.


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