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A Toast to a New Friend  

kzoopair 73M/71F
8614 posts
10/9/2014 10:54 am
A Toast to a New Friend

I haven't much been moved to write anything lately. I've made a few connections with new people, all of them women and so I've been basking in that for a few days. It's like rolling around in fresh clover hay with no burrs in it. When you meet someone new and click like magnets, and there's that closing switch that flashes briefly and then the energy starts to flow, lighting up synapses across the brain, it can spark an infatuation that might carry you away if you don't keep your wits about you. I don't have an over abundance of wit in store, to begin with. Witness, and witless, I've been to the altar four times- I never liked dating, I just married them. PD, my wife, is the one I was looking for but there had to be a convergence or a synchronicity for that collision to occur. PD, in her blog: "I've been married four times. I can't run to the supermarket without marrying somebody." It wasn't pre-ordained, it wasn't merely meant to happen. When the right proteins and amino acids float together and the water temperature is just right with exactly the proper amount of sunlight present life begins spontaneously and that's pretty much what happened with us, and we don't credit our existence before the event as having much meaning except as the random series of escapades that led to us conjoining. Right out of the starting gate we felt that we were two minds with but a single thought, two hearts that beat as one. Birds sang, bees gently buzzed. The very flowers which had been lolling languidly at their posts leapt to attention and arranged themselves smartly, entirely on our behalf, and bathed the new couple in that resplendent glory which is theirs to bestow. Neither of us noticed quite when our union became carved in marble but we acknowledged the monument and floated on, together.

It's a little like that when upon first meeting a friend and you are so quickly enamored of that girl that infatuation takes hold, an adolescent crush that feels as fresh and new as sunrise. One wonders how he got along all these years without knowing this woman. It is at once bracing, invigorating and as pleasantly warm and soft as a new puppy clasped gently to the breast. Every thought exchanged is savored and mulled over and put away safely, but not too far, so as to be in arm's reach at need. It will be needed often.

PD is irreplaceable. That she gifts me with her blessing for this dalliance and flirtation is a measure of her love and trust and is one reason why I am forever in her thrall. I return her trust with my own.

One friend stands out a bit proud of the others. In any good toast it isn't necessary to name the object of adoration. It is understood that she knows who she is. This is my simple "Thank you".
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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
10/9/2014 12:10 pm
    Quoting kathynj:
    Few people ever get to know this level of connection with another soul. You are a very lucky man. Unless you have experienced it yourself, you cannot even begin to comprehend how magnificent it is.

    On infatuation, it is a wonderful dangerous thing and when it gets out of control, it can actually ruin something that has been very nice. I will try to be mindful of these wise words.
I try to mindful of them myself. Yeah, self control is the watch word, but in this case I think I'm just going to throw caution to the wind and dive overboard without casting the lead for shoal water. It's exhilarating! Oh, and great fun.
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kzoopair 73M/71F
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10/9/2014 2:14 pm
    Quoting AmeliaCox:
    Your wife and your new friend are very blessed to have your love and friendship. *hug*
Thank you, Mel. I honestly think Iam the one who's blessed.
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kzoopair 73M/71F
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10/9/2014 4:48 pm
    Quoting  :
Thanks! I am.
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kzoopair 73M/71F
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10/10/2014 7:01 am
    Quoting mcmaniac:
    I'm very happy for you. It's been a long time since I got that feeling from a woman I've met.
I've sure had my spells, too. One lasted thirty years.
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kzoopair 73M/71F
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10/10/2014 4:59 pm
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That's how it it with us. She trusts me and she trusts herself. I looked thirty years for this. I don't know what I'd do without her, now.
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KItkat1415 61F  
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10/10/2014 8:46 pm

 K,
Wow, how cool is your wife?
I like this woman without knowing her blog or anything else except this blog where you mentioned her.
And your new friend sounds cool, too.
I hope you have fun getting to know her.
Kk
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kzoopair 73M/71F
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10/10/2014 9:20 pm
    Quoting KItkat1415:
    K,
    Wow, how cool is your wife?
    I like this woman without knowing her blog or anything else except this blog where you mentioned her.
    And your new friend sounds cool, too.
    I hope you have fun getting to know her.
    Kk
There are times when people can make you begin thinking that life is just too ridiculous to contemplate, and then you will jog into a stretch where you cross paths with some of the most marvelous creatures who ever evolved and placed one foot before the other. I've had my ups and downs but I'm in the zone right now where that opioidergic mechanism in the brain has convinced me that the race is worth running and might be won. All on account of having intersected with a few of those most delightful organisms we refer to as women. I have been an atheist all my life but there exist a few women who seem to constitute incontrovertible evidence that there is a god. Thank you, Kk. I am pleased that you stopped by.
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kzoopair 73M/71F
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10/10/2014 9:42 pm
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She is my guiding light.
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CampoGirl 58F
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10/13/2014 2:12 pm

 Awww how very nice!
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kzoopair 73M/71F
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10/13/2014 2:26 pm

 Thank you! Nice to see you here. We really should get together more often...
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kzoopair 73M/71F
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10/17/2014 7:52 pm
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Osphena, my life IS full. And I owe it all to her.
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