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Re: Petition to Stop Transsexuals from Using Female Profiles  

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/15/2016 8:49 pm

    Quoting  :

You have nothing to apologize for. Your comments are welcome here. Make yourself at home! Mi casa su casa. Can I get you a beer?

I read your post of the same title as mine before I discovered the original petition post. You wrote a hell of a good post and even though I don't voice on opinion on blog quarrels and spats often, this thing is getting ugly and it isn't just a normal blog squabble. It became clear that it was time to say something. I can't exactly say that you inspired my post, but you sure as hell made me think, and I might not have posted without your example.

As much as I come here to have fun, some shit you just gotta call out as shit. One of the things I'll call out as shit is sore losers blaming everything on Obama irregardless of the facts. So, you pitched in and helped out here. Thanks! Be assured that you're welcome here anytime. Come back soon, and often.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/15/2016 8:56 pm

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You started hot and finished cool, and I agree with you.

I don't wish the woman ill, but I think she already is ill and could use the services of a good therapist. Maybe some decent meds too. But her issues are neither here nor there when it comes to relentlessly slandering an innocent party simply out of jealousy and spite. It's wrong and it ought to be called out. You did a good thing speaking up about it, and I don't doubt that your example helped others to make the same decision. How's it feel being a positive role model?

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/15/2016 11:16 pm

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I'll second that, or third it, or...whatever. I have doubts about her state of mind. But there are people who are that hateful and that unprincipled. That in and of itself is an illness. The hell of it is, you still gotta deal with her hurtful actions. And telling the injured party in this to just suck it up because the woman persecuting her is sick just doesn't cut it. It's gotta be hard enough to be transgendered in this repressive culture without dealing with crass opportunists like the blogger in question. Like elasticheart said, it's refreshing to see so many people standing up and trying to do the right thing.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/16/2016 10:37 am

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No, it's good that you find that funny. That's her practice, the way I understand it. Complete censorship and control of what her readers can read.... It's all just silly. This is a dating, networking and fucking site! It ain't that important! She seems to see it as a personal cult, like David Koresh or Jim Jones. But that constant ragging on the new top blogger is getting way out of hand. maybe she's getting ready to serve up the Koolaid.

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
5/16/2016 3:15 pm

Your most welcome KZ I did like pimping your blog and I am happy you have some new people visiting and reading it! I couldn't believe how many views it got and comments.. Nice to see most of us bloggers love the way you blog! hugssssssss V

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/16/2016 3:34 pm

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I started out in a home with one outhouse. We all used it and never had any fistfights about it. We moved up to one indoor bathroom and thought we were in the lap of luxury. I had to share a locker room with a bunch of grungy truckers. If I can do that I'm sure as hell not worried about trans people sharing the same can. I don't even mind sharing with Republicans, but I do keep an eye on their stance.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/16/2016 3:42 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Your most welcome KZ I did like pimping your blog and I am happy you have some new people visiting and reading it! I couldn't believe how many views it got and comments.. Nice to see most of us bloggers love the way you blog! hugssssssss V
I'll start right out with the hugs today. I'm surprised by the number of comments on this post too, and I'm also very pleased that so many folks expressed support for our top blogger. She's very nice and always polite even in disagreement.

Huggggs again.......Bill

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HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
5/16/2016 5:30 pm

I think the petition is vindictive and mean spirited, the current top blogger is an honest sweet lady, who has never misrepresented herself to me


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/16/2016 5:43 pm

    Quoting HermanG67:
    I think the petition is vindictive and mean spirited, the current top blogger is an honest sweet lady, who has never misrepresented herself to me
It was good of you to say so Herman. I agree with you, obviously. I hope it lifts her spirits to see all the folks who backed her up. I reckon she needs a rest!

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spankandsquirt20 45F
10597 posts
5/17/2016 5:15 am

Great post. I couldn't agree more....I can't for my life understand why anyone would want to spread hate like this. I try to stay out of this drama as much as possible. But is is so sad that the need to be on top makes someone act in such a hateful way.


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/17/2016 5:44 am

    Quoting spankandsquirt20:
    Great post. I couldn't agree more....I can't for my life understand why anyone would want to spread hate like this. I try to stay out of this drama as much as possible. But is is so sad that the need to be on top makes someone act in such a hateful way.
Thanks. There are always gonna be disagreements. I figure that much is inevitable with people. This really isn't about that Most Active List for me, but because of the list it got more attention, which is kinda sad because it happens to others who aren't so high profile. And it's clearly ALL about the list and noting else for the former top blogger. THAT is really sad.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/17/2016 12:13 pm

    Quoting Apollorising2056:
    Great write and therefore you are the master of the post!
Well, thanks. I'd really rather have done without it.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/17/2016 12:22 pm

    Quoting Apollorising2056:
    I have found out the hard way that when I cross the T's and dot the I's I infringe on other peoples freedom of expression and therefore only reveal my ignorance!
We all fuck up from time to time. I try to at least listen to other points of view, but I honestly think the only reason I'm obligated to is a kind of social reciprocity- I want a chance to have my say, too. Fair is fair. But I'm NOT obligated to agree, or even be pleasant about it.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/17/2016 5:59 pm

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Well, you know, I'm fairly laissez faire about even foot tapping. To each his own. I've never said no and been challenged on that no. I'm even kind of flattered, in a way. At my age, you take compliments where you can find them. But we're on the same page about courtesy flushes!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/19/2016 5:33 pm

    Quoting SexiLuvinGirl:
    What I find unsettling, is people choose to voice their opinion about the blog being referenced and being transgender; however, the person that wrote the blog, who I am not friends with, is being bashed for writing her opinions and thoughts. I'm not on anyone's side! What I think is disrespectful is any dishonesty or trash talking. I was bashed for writing a blog in agreement with Sandy. It does not mean I "hate" anyone. I'm not that way.

    I just came back here. I went to both person's blogs who are being referenced. I didn't have time to read every single blog on the transgender male's site to find one section that indicated that she/he was not born female. She/he is still not female. I think transgendered people have a huge challenge for themselves and it's a tough role. But, posting pictures of giving blow jobs to men on the website with an "assumed" purpose to attract men, to me is not right nor are a lot of other things that happen on this website.

    I think the majority of people who have commented on both of these blogs and my blog have been rude and disrespectful in the sense of not allowing other people to have an opinion that they may not agree with and telling them to shut up for voicing their opinion on a subject matter that is a very touchy subject.

    Whether or not Sandy is po'd about loosing her spot on the blog list, I don't know. In my opinion, she earned her place WHICH DOES NOT MEAN I AM HER FRIEND!

    Additionally, haters and people that discriminate are also about everyone of the individuals that don't allow a person(s) to voice their own opinion without being slander and ridiculed by others for doing so, which is exactly what you're doing here.

    This does not make you any better than Sandy or the transgendered male. There is a way to approach a subject without bashing others, which is what you've done here, too. You've all voiced opinions on the subject, which you feel you have the right to do and you do. You're comments are not nice, not friendly; but, hateful and filled with jealous rants about "assumed" speculations as to why Sandy is assumed to be "mad". Just like many of you assumed and stated that I was Sandy's friend. Let me make this clear. You're liars!

    I'm sorry; but, this blog is just as hateful as any other blog that demeans a person and slanders a person with statements you don't know to be true or facts. You think you know!
No, it isn't hateful to call someone out for hateful behavior. And- I have never asserted anything about you in your blog or elsewhere. I never even heard of you til you commented here. You can criticize me for disagreeing with a commenter here but I didn't shut anyone up or deny anyone a right to speak. However, I have a right to disagree and I'll keep on doing so.

As to your assertion that "she/he is still not female", we're just gonna have to agree to disagree on that. I don't see it that way.

It makes no sense to assert that the former top blogger is well with in her rights to do anything she damn well pleases but anyone who takes issue with that is being hateful. That's just stupid.

And yes- I do think I know, otherwise I would not have said so.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/19/2016 5:36 pm

    Quoting SexiLuvinGirl:
    Where is anyone telling anyone else how to live? How is that any different than transgendered men and/or women using the restroom based on their birth gender? It's not. You're voicing your opinions, just like others. Because they don't agree with you or see things the way you want, it doesn't mean they're telling someone where to live. Where is that written? Who said this? Back up your comment?
Now you're just trolling comments. You've made your point.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/19/2016 6:25 pm

    Quoting SexiLuvinGirl:
    "She" never bothers anyone and "She" blocked me. Listen to what you're saying. Ok. I get it. If it's petty, why in Gawd's name are you rambling on with this?
And I'm beginning to see why she blocked you.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/19/2016 6:29 pm

    Quoting SexiLuvinGirl:
    Bullys? I think every single one of the people involved in the comments on this blog and others are bullys! All trying to force your opinions on others for your own reaons. kzoopair? You got attention by posting this? Probably more attention that you got on any other blog that you've every posted? Deceptive motives? Yes. Are you top male blogger yet? Should I assume that was the reason you posted a blog to slander another blogger and draw a crowd? I don't know. Tell me you had "positive ommms" when you posted a hate blog against Sandy.

    This does not make you any better.
Your comment is complete rubbish. No one is forced to read the post and you know that very well. People comment voluntarily and you know that too. Stop blowin' smoke and hollerin' fire. Do you figure that if you throw enough shit maybe something will stick?

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/19/2016 7:02 pm

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I'm not surprised. She's having a night, that one! She may have gone off her meds.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/19/2016 7:11 pm

    Quoting SexiLuvinGirl:
    "She" never bothers anyone and "She" blocked me. Listen to what you're saying. Ok. I get it. If it's petty, why in Gawd's name are you rambling on with this?
You've been leaving a trail of shit wherever you've been tonight. I'm done responding to you.

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Furbal1972 51M
18571 posts
5/19/2016 7:15 pm

    Quoting kzoopair:
    I'm not surprised. She's having a night, that one! She may have gone off her meds.
"Gone off her meds". .. That's exactly what I was going to say!

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nightsoul1962 61F
17828 posts
5/19/2016 7:19 pm

This is all so very entertaining!!!! I'm LMAO!!!!
I said it before and I'll say it again: if I was T. I would take my cock out and say "suck it bitch!!!!!! " End of story!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/19/2016 7:23 pm

    Quoting Furbal1972:
    "Gone off her meds". .. That's exactly what I was going to say!
Doesn't it look like that, though? She's got a wheelbarrow full of bullshit and she's trundling from blog to blog with it, sharing equally everywhere she goes. The arguments she makes are the same as any troll- only people who agree with her are practicing free speech- the rest of us are hateful. I blocked her. I was hesitating and then when I read your post it tipped me to teetering. When I looked at Buni's post that iced it. She's just a troublemaker.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/19/2016 7:27 pm

    Quoting nightsoul1962:
    This is all so very entertaining!!!! I'm LMAO!!!!
    I said it before and I'll say it again: if I was T. I would take my cock out and say "suck it bitch!!!!!! " End of story!
Well, I see your point. I was kind of chuckling when I read her comments here- she made seven!- but after reading a couple of friends' posts I've had enough of her. All she's doing is trying to stir shit. And it's her own shit. Ain't it funny how she just decided to come back tonight in a certain blogger's time of need?

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/20/2016 10:13 am

    Quoting mcmaniac:
    She's not blocked, she has a link to the original post.
And so.....?

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