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Re: Petition to Stop Transsexuals from Using Female Profiles  

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
6/2/2016 9:20 am

    Quoting sexcbeach1:
    Thank U for standing up to bigots & bullies! I have caught Ms S hating on trans people a couple of times. And when I confronted her on her blog, she called me a liar! she said that trans people are useless & cant provide life! And I said, well there is nuthin stopping them from IVF
I'm no authority on that blogger's history- there are plenty of bloggers who've been here longer than I have and they know her better. But there appears to be a pattern of being willing to say or do anything to get attention and not caring who gets hurt. I kind of doubt that she even believes her own bullshit. It just looks like opportunism to me. That behavior identifies her as a troll. I've been seeing that in our politics too- rank hypocrisy and manipulation of people's basest instincts, and it was time to call it what it is- despicable.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
6/2/2016 9:23 am

    Quoting sexcbeach1:
    And what is the big deal about bathrooms!!! gee whiz... im no stranger to bush camping lol
It's a dog whistle to rally the forces of darkness... They come trotting out right away to show their outrage that all us sub-standard folks think we deserve kindness and consideration. The proper response is to piss on their shoes.

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sexcbeach1 43M
314 posts
6/2/2016 5:49 pm

thanks for making me smile & believe in descent human beings like yerself & yer missus! wishing u both lots of fun & happiness xox


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
6/2/2016 6:21 pm

    Quoting sexcbeach1:
    thanks for making me smile & believe in descent human beings like yerself & yer missus! wishing u both lots of fun & happiness xox
You're most welcome! Thanks for reading and commenting. I hope to see you here again, soon and often. This site has a hell of a lot of fine bloggers. It's a shame that a few clowns try to control it and ruin it for the rest of us.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
6/5/2016 11:09 am

    Quoting  :

That is interesting! Some people don't do nuance or subtlety. The bludgeon seems to be her weapon of choice. And you are SO right- the people behaving that way just don't get it.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
6/6/2016 2:41 pm

    Quoting  :

I think it's probably a safe bet that, should you visit the U.S.A. again, you won't be invited for a southern fried chicken dinner at her place. I think I'm off that list too. Do you like lasagna?

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
6/6/2016 6:34 pm

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Well, it won't help because it's changed in the last couple of days, but, I'll try to help anyhow.

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Not_here2meet 55F
3843 posts
6/7/2016 9:54 am

I just want to chime in and say, I'm glad I missed all of this.

Great analogy with the bathrooms, it's almost like North Carolina is playing out on Black Flirting!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
6/7/2016 10:03 am

    Quoting Not_here2meet:
    I just want to chime in and say, I'm glad I missed all of this.

    Great analogy with the bathrooms, it's almost like North Carolina is playing out on Black Flirting!
Most of us would have been happy to have missed it too.

It's good to see you back!

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rm_PrisicaK 49F
479 posts
6/7/2016 1:47 pm

I think transgender confuses most people. Biologically one would need to be a hemaphrodite to be across or between gender. I'm comfortable recognizing a male as a woman if he has undergone gender reassignment. Otherwise he's just a crossdressing homosexual.


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
6/7/2016 3:41 pm

    Quoting rm_PrisicaK:
    I think transgender confuses most people. Biologically one would need to be a hemaphrodite to be across or between gender. I'm comfortable recognizing a male as a woman if he has undergone gender reassignment. Otherwise he's just a crossdressing homosexual.
I think transgender confuses most people too. But I also think gender identity is about more than anatomy. I'm convinced that it's very much about biology, and by that I mean the biology of the brain. There's a good article- "Check the Science: Being Trans is Not a 'Choice' by Leslie P. Henderson that talks about just that.

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rm_PrisicaK 49F
479 posts
6/8/2016 11:40 am

I find it interesting that scientists look to nature to qualify the unnatural. That is where science loses its footing somewhat. Transgenderism is not identified in the animal kingdom. I understand that humans are a complex organism but seriously. Homosexuality is identified in animal population but as a species we have exceeded proportionality seen in nature. There is not a significant occurrence of homosexuality in nature because it is a recipe for extinction.


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
6/8/2016 11:54 am

    Quoting rm_PrisicaK:
    I find it interesting that scientists look to nature to qualify the unnatural. That is where science loses its footing somewhat. Transgenderism is not identified in the animal kingdom. I understand that humans are a complex organism but seriously. Homosexuality is identified in animal population but as a species we have exceeded proportionality seen in nature. There is not a significant occurrence of homosexuality in nature because it is a recipe for extinction.
Because a thing has not yet been identified in nature does not mean it doesn't exist. Since we don't communicate well with animals they can't tell us that they have gender ambiguity. All we have is observation. What observation has assured you that transgenders do not exist in nature?

Your statement "There is not a significant occurrence of homosexuality in nature because it is a recipe for extinction" doesn't make sense to me. I would assert that as long as there are a sufficient number of reproducing individuals, homosexuality in no way threatens the survival of a species.

Are you positing that homosexuals and transgendered persons are unnatural? Again, I disagree. They clearly are natural, just not as common as heterosexuals. Are redheads also unnatural? How about left handed people?

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KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
6/8/2016 8:40 pm

    Quoting davidalive:
    What I have noticed the most about Trans biological males who id as female
    is they mostly want couples FF , MF, or F only.
    Transgender is a way of saying am special & to look at me, give me a participation trophy for being meh. I can be as discriminate, yell, act out, dress,
    curse and you have to accept it or the full force of young society, progressives,
    leftists and know some states along with US Justice Department to help me hammer you.
    We will eliminate Free Speech & Free Thought. Only what we say will be allowed or we yell DISCRIMINATION.
    So here when someone searches for Women they must be very careful that looking at a biological born female when that is what they want.
    I am starting a new group for people to join. Up is really down. Black is really white people, latins are asians, arabs are jews, etc.
    Lets really be progressive.
Hey David,
There are lots of people who specify one group of people over others. Why should that bother you? After all, I'm going to hazard a guess that you probably have groups of people that you don't want either because, um, you have preferences. It's ok to have preferences, BTW.

People who are transgender do NOT think they are better than anyone else, which is how your comment reads to the casual reader. They have their set of circumstances, you have yours. You identified as a male early on. They simply identified as the gender that they were not born as. It is pretty simple.

As to free speech, your comment is rather rambling but I take it that you think if people disagree with you that you are not allowed your complete free speech. You do understand that the First Amendment that guarantees Freedom of Speech means that you are allowed to express your opinion, no matter whether it is acceptable or not, without fear of the government coming in and punishing you for it? Other people who disagree with your opinion are simply exercising THEIR Freedom of Speech by stating THEIR opinion. That doesn't infringe on your opinion. If enough people disagree with your opinion, you might want to think about WHY you have the opinion you do. Is it because you are afraid of someone who is different than yourself? Is it that you don't understand how some poor person could have been born one gender and not feel that way inside? Is it because those people over there just have a different opinion based on their experience, whereas your experience is vastly different and you base your opinion on that?

Honestly, I am not challenging you on your negative opinion of progressives, liberals, transgenders, or anything else. I am simply asking you to think about why you chose to have the opinions you do and then react negatively to anyone who has a different opinion than you do.

I have written several posts regarding censorship. Having a different opinion than you do, is not censorship. I trained in journalism and censorship and the right guaranteed by the Constitution of Freedom of Speech; it's something I had to study for many years in school, and have since continued to study.

Respectfully,
Kitkat

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
6/8/2016 8:56 pm

    Quoting KItkat1415:
    Hey David,
    There are lots of people who specify one group of people over others. Why should that bother you? After all, I'm going to hazard a guess that you probably have groups of people that you don't want either because, um, you have preferences. It's ok to have preferences, BTW.

    People who are transgender do NOT think they are better than anyone else, which is how your comment reads to the casual reader. They have their set of circumstances, you have yours. You identified as a male early on. They simply identified as the gender that they were not born as. It is pretty simple.

    As to free speech, your comment is rather rambling but I take it that you think if people disagree with you that you are not allowed your complete free speech. You do understand that the First Amendment that guarantees Freedom of Speech means that you are allowed to express your opinion, no matter whether it is acceptable or not, without fear of the government coming in and punishing you for it? Other people who disagree with your opinion are simply exercising THEIR Freedom of Speech by stating THEIR opinion. That doesn't infringe on your opinion. If enough people disagree with your opinion, you might want to think about WHY you have the opinion you do. Is it because you are afraid of someone who is different than yourself? Is it that you don't understand how some poor person could have been born one gender and not feel that way inside? Is it because those people over there just have a different opinion based on their experience, whereas your experience is vastly different and you base your opinion on that?

    Honestly, I am not challenging you on your negative opinion of progressives, liberals, transgenders, or anything else. I am simply asking you to think about why you chose to have the opinions you do and then react negatively to anyone who has a different opinion than you do.

    I have written several posts regarding censorship. Having a different opinion than you do, is not censorship. I trained in journalism and censorship and the right guaranteed by the Constitution of Freedom of Speech; it's something I had to study for many years in school, and have since continued to study.

    Respectfully,
    Kitkat
Well done.

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goodatpoetry2 74M
16552 posts
6/10/2016 8:36 am

You BET it's just sour grapes.
It's ALWAYS about that damn list with her/them.

I wish some group would run an ad that shows 10 BEAUTIFUL women (some trans) and ask...
Which of THESE women do you want to go into the public bathroom with your son?

Of course, you tell them that some are trans... but which ones????


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
6/10/2016 10:18 am

    Quoting goodatpoetry2:
    You BET it's just sour grapes.
    It's ALWAYS about that damn list with her/them.

    I wish some group would run an ad that shows 10 BEAUTIFUL women (some trans) and ask...
    Which of THESE women do you want to go into the public bathroom with your son?

    Of course, you tell them that some are trans... but which ones????
It gets old, doesn't it? There isn't anything wrong with wanting to have a high ranking on the list, but some people just aren't mature enough to handle it. As KItkat1415 puts it, this is why we can't have nice things.

The bathroom legislation isn't a bit different from laws banning Sharia law, or the Defense of Marriage Act, or rules mandating that creationism must be taught as if it were a scientific theory- they're all dog whistles used to stir up anger and resentment among the conservative base. They help to keep us divided.

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tadakimasu 32M

6/11/2016 12:17 am

Scary sentiment


up4stuff2 52M
18 posts
6/11/2016 8:07 am

Well I looked at this from a very much less political angle. I looked at it also from a less "I want to be top blogger" angle.
I have personally messaged with, and gone to meet a "female" member, only to find out that in fact it was not a female.
Whether they personally identified as female is not the question to me...it is: am I going to see them as a female or not? They presented themselves as one?!
I am all for being who you want to be, and this is a sex site so I would guess that people are looking for sex....presumably from who they want.
I say be who you want, but please do not try and deceive others to try and get your goal.
If you do, you can expect nothing less than some push-back. People will be upset if you try and deceive them.....and you know if you're doing it.
A person who identifies as a female, but has a penis, must know that another person who is looking for a "female", PROBABLY is looking for a person with a vagina.
Again, I am posting this not in response to some blog that should be read more than another, but to people who put up a profile and portray themselves in a certain way in order to MEET others. That is how I took the whole "Petition.." thing.


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
6/11/2016 8:19 am

What?

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
6/11/2016 8:22 am

    Quoting up4stuff2:
    Well I looked at this from a very much less political angle. I looked at it also from a less "I want to be top blogger" angle.
    I have personally messaged with, and gone to meet a "female" member, only to find out that in fact it was not a female.
    Whether they personally identified as female is not the question to me...it is: am I going to see them as a female or not? They presented themselves as one?!
    I am all for being who you want to be, and this is a sex site so I would guess that people are looking for sex....presumably from who they want.
    I say be who you want, but please do not try and deceive others to try and get your goal.
    If you do, you can expect nothing less than some push-back. People will be upset if you try and deceive them.....and you know if you're doing it.
    A person who identifies as a female, but has a penis, must know that another person who is looking for a "female", PROBABLY is looking for a person with a vagina.
    Again, I am posting this not in response to some blog that should be read more than another, but to people who put up a profile and portray themselves in a certain way in order to MEET others. That is how I took the whole "Petition.." thing.
I understand your point and I agree. You were misled.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
6/11/2016 8:30 am

    Quoting  :

I don't see anything wrong with posting photos of body parts. This is advertised as a sex site, most of the membership is male and men like body parts. I like body parts. But there is something wrong with trashing anyone who might be competition for you simply because you think the guys will look at their pictures and not your own.

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up4stuff2 52M
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6/11/2016 5:55 pm

    Quoting  :

If by "the person in question" you are referring some person who was "top blogger", then I can see you responding to some post about that particular person.
I made it pretty clear that I looked at the Petition thing not from a blogging perspective.
The question that was put forth was: should a transsexual be able to have a profile as a female.
My answer, and the reason given, were based on that. I probably could not care any less if I tried, for who does or doesn't have the spot of top blogger, and the post I made had nothing to do with blogging.
If the question was "Do you have a problem with someone portraying themselves as someone they are not, in a blog?" I would say its all possible fantasy anyways, so have at it! Doesn't bother me one bit. People author whole books in the point of view of one gender when they are the other. No real issue to me.
I can't speak for BullyMcBullshit,(whoever that is supposed to be) but i don't even know who the hell YOU are talking about that "had a vagina or not"!!
Not My Argument!! Nothing to do with my post!
After reading my post you should come to the conclusion that I believe if a man is going to meet a person, with a female profile, who portrayed themselves as a female in dialog back and forth, that that person should be a female. Not a transsexual. Not a man.
Simple and to the point.
Again, nothing here about blogs. Nothing.
Please don't roll me in with some silly squabble over the coveted "top blogger" spot.
Blogging is one thing. Portraying yourself as someone you are not, for the purpose of meeting people, is yet another.
There are deceitful people on here of both sexes. In my case it was a man posing as a woman. A man will pose as a couple as well. Men do it all the time on here, if I had a choice it would be that you have to have a profile based on what you are....regardless...it might make it a little easier to weed out what you want and what you don't....for all sexes.
Just be honest about who you are and what you want.
And for the record, showing off tits, ass, and a vagina doesn't automatically make you attractive.
Have a great day.


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
6/11/2016 8:58 pm

    Quoting up4stuff2:
    If by "the person in question" you are referring some person who was "top blogger", then I can see you responding to some post about that particular person.
    I made it pretty clear that I looked at the Petition thing not from a blogging perspective.
    The question that was put forth was: should a transsexual be able to have a profile as a female.
    My answer, and the reason given, were based on that. I probably could not care any less if I tried, for who does or doesn't have the spot of top blogger, and the post I made had nothing to do with blogging.
    If the question was "Do you have a problem with someone portraying themselves as someone they are not, in a blog?" I would say its all possible fantasy anyways, so have at it! Doesn't bother me one bit. People author whole books in the point of view of one gender when they are the other. No real issue to me.
    I can't speak for BullyMcBullshit,(whoever that is supposed to be) but i don't even know who the hell YOU are talking about that "had a vagina or not"!!
    Not My Argument!! Nothing to do with my post!
    After reading my post you should come to the conclusion that I believe if a man is going to meet a person, with a female profile, who portrayed themselves as a female in dialog back and forth, that that person should be a female. Not a transsexual. Not a man.
    Simple and to the point.
    Again, nothing here about blogs. Nothing.
    Please don't roll me in with some silly squabble over the coveted "top blogger" spot.
    Blogging is one thing. Portraying yourself as someone you are not, for the purpose of meeting people, is yet another.
    There are deceitful people on here of both sexes. In my case it was a man posing as a woman. A man will pose as a couple as well. Men do it all the time on here, if I had a choice it would be that you have to have a profile based on what you are....regardless...it might make it a little easier to weed out what you want and what you don't....for all sexes.
    Just be honest about who you are and what you want.
    And for the record, showing off tits, ass, and a vagina doesn't automatically make you attractive.
    Have a great day.
Again, I take your point, and thanks for reiterating it. It did help to clarify, but you were clear in the first place. I take no issue with your wish that people would be honest. My contention is and always has been that the transgendered blogger being discussed here was never dishonest or deceitful. She was open about who and what she was, in her profile and in her blog. She chooses to identify as female and I'm not bothered in the least by that, since she was always open about herself. The point of my post was not to debate whether or not transgendered people are male or female or trans and can identify as they choose. I happen to think, as you do, that they can identify as whatever they're comfortable with. My point of view here is essentially political, in that I was trying to point out hypocrisy and pandering for personal gain, and draw a parallel between what was being done on this site and on the national stage at the same time. I contend that the issue on this site and in the larger world is the singling out of a minority not because of any real interest in public safety, or to promote greater honesty and truthfulness, or morality, but purely for some temporary personal goal. I stand by my assertion that it was crass, deceitful and petty in it's motivation.

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anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
6/12/2016 12:43 am

Hello,

Just wanted to let you know that the Petition post was removed by the site. Not sure how many members were blocked or not, but figured since you went to the trouble of creating a blog so members could share their feelings/opinions on this "petition" then I figured you'd want to know that the petition was removed.

I hope one or more members can let the blogger who was the center or target of the petition know it is gone/removed and perhaps she'll choose to blog here again. I believe she is missed by a lot of members/fans of hers.

Thank you & Happy Sun,

Ana6

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