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AFF Members Real Or Full Of Hot Air?  

suckmedry8403 39F
54 posts
7/4/2016 1:39 pm
AFF Members Real Or Full Of Hot Air?

Are some of the people on Black Flirting in your local area REAL about hookups or just full of hot air and like to message all day with no intent of action?

What say you? I've chatted with many who say this site has become boring (although it is a sex site) and they will be deleting their profiles or even just remaining standard.

kissing_softly 109F  
216 posts
7/4/2016 2:17 pm

 I could meet as many men, as I wanted, but I'm particular.


Lance_Goodthrust 67M
353 posts
7/4/2016 2:26 pm

 I agree with Oldtar69. People, whether single or couples, that want to actually meet seem to be very few and far between. At least in my area anyway.


KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
7/4/2016 2:36 pm

 Well I don't know about other parts of the country, but in San Diego, plenty of people hook-up, have sex, meet-up, even have relationships after meeting up.
I have met a total of about 40 people from the site (but then again, I met about 20 of those people at a bloggers bash and I interview people for my blog).

I dunno, maybe other parts of the country are more stay at home-ish?
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iwalkstilts 49M
2869 posts
7/4/2016 2:52 pm

 People who want to meet are few and far between in the Spokane WA area.


bisarahsmiles 34F
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282 posts
7/4/2016 3:19 pm

 I think it's obvious from the replies that it varies. It will depend on who you ask, their location et cetera.

So far I've been lucky and met some really great people. I'm very selective about who I meet. I haven't been disappointed or let down yet.


BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
7/4/2016 5:21 pm

 It's far easier for a woman than a man. I would say that over about a decade, I've
*met* over 100 men but had sex with very few because of a lack of interest (usually mine).

I think that KItkat1415 raises a good point, it can depend on where you are geographically as well as what you are looking for. I find that there are a lot more men who meet what I'm looking for where I used to live as opposed to where I am now. Could I still get dates? Sure. Could I still get laid? Sure. The question is would I want too and the pool here is a lot shallower than back home.

As for people saying that the,"site has become boring (although it is a sex site) and they will be deleting their profiles or even just remaining standard" That's nothing new. whenever the site makes changes, there are people unhappy about it who moan about how the site has changed and how they might leave.
I wouldn't worry so much about that.

The question is are you getting what you're looking for from the site and are you putting forth the best effort to find it.


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