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Damn, it's been a while.  

ladybughug443 39F
66 posts
7/18/2016 7:13 am
Damn, it's been a while.


It has been some time since I posted a blog, and I don't really know how to start this, so I'll just have at it. Since February I been thinking on whether to make this decision or not, and as of right now I do believe it is for the best.

I am going to lay off Black Flirting for a bit. Don't get me wrong, it's not that I haven't enjoyed myself, I have met many great people and have had lots of good times. But since the passing of my mother in late January, may she rest in peace, I have been trying to get some shit together. It may seem strange, but I just don't have the interest or enthusiasm as I once did. I find myself reading through all my messages just to get rid of the notifications anymore. And with that apathy I find this decision to be the best.

It is kind of hard to believe that I have been on here for over five years. Many people have come and gone, a many that I miss, lol. I know for a few of you that this isn't the blog you were hoping for, but hey, I might come back. I'm still debating on whether to keep my profile active or not, just for the hell of it. I don't, we will see in the next week or so.

Until next time,

Linda "LadyBugHug"


thehotproducer 49M

10/6/2021 8:24 pm

Life is a journey and you have to take it as it comes and goes!! Wishing you the best


SomeGuyOnPhone 24M
1 post
6/12/2021 3:19 pm

Hope you have recovered from your loss.


HerpesNHollywood 49M

11/1/2020 7:02 pm

Not sure if you're back or not. Loss of a parent can bring up a lot of mixed emotions.


Caseyholmes 46M
4 posts
11/4/2019 5:32 pm

Sorry for your loss. I hope your staying strong


D4ddyp1mps 47M
6 posts
11/19/2018 5:50 pm

im sorry for your loss


fun4u92354 55M  
5 posts
10/2/2016 9:38 am

I'm very sorry about your Mother, I'm sure it is twice as hard with your Dad being already gone. Hopefully you have friends to help you get by. With the passing of someone so close it makes us think about many things. We have to think about the time we have maybe short so we need to maybe we have to hope we can make a good and lasting impression people. I hope you find your way. Your have a very beautiful smile and I hope that things will get better so that your smile is showing more often than not and that is how you are feeling too.


segsi4you 41M
52 posts
8/22/2016 2:39 am

Awwww Linda....I am sorry to hear that. Best wishes to you and I hope nothing but the best for you.


Texmexicali 43M
4 posts
7/25/2016 2:32 am

I just found your blogs and I have been enjoying them. In this season of your life, may you enjoy the moments and reflect on life.


Fervent7 55M
457 posts
7/20/2016 11:38 pm

Nothing wrong with recognizing when it's time to take a break. Relax, come back if and when you feel like it. Good luck.


hrdallnght4u 67M

7/18/2016 8:40 am

Sorry to hear of the passing of Your Mom..stay strong babe..

You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!


ladybughug443 replies on 7/19/2016 3:40 am:
Thank you. Staying strong is one thing I do well.

DiscreteFunSkr17 63M
120 posts
7/18/2016 7:32 am

HUGS to you. Take the time you need, life changes and at times some things get put aside for a time.

Take the time you need and return when you are ready.

My advice is to Yes turn off your profile or you will get many emails saying you have a new message etc. Turn off the notifications of Friends & Hot List updates if that is on so again your inbox is not flooded.

Update your intro Line to state you will be away and return later.

Good Luck and take one day at a time!


ladybughug443 replies on 7/19/2016 3:33 am:
Yeah, I could really use some time off with a lot of things, not just Black Flirting. I think I will turn off my profile for a bit.

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