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Blogs > crimsonsexygal > Musing of an Island Girl

What part of .... do you not get?  

crimsonsexygal 53F  
30 posts
9/5/2015 9:45 pm
What part of .... do you not get?

I get that for non-paying members, they are not able to read the profile if they do not pay for it. But for other silver and gold members, yet I find that some people do ignore what I have written on my profile.

I clearly indicate that I do not judge people who choose to step out on their partners but I do not want to be a party to that. It is quite obvious that if you are married or attached, it is just a waste of time to write to me. And it also annoys me to no end.

In my profile, it is also stated that I do not entertain travellers but there are plenty of other women who do do, so again it is obvious that I will not respond to emails or messages if you are just passing through Singapore. Yet they still write.

But perhaps that is the nature of Black Flirting and the fact that there is no downside to writing that email or sending that IM, hoping that it will pan out. Absolutely nothing to lose; since that membership is already paid or there is no membership to pay. And maybe she will write back!

Oh yes, one more thing while I am on the subject of not responding, if you have a dick pic as your profile, there is only an ice-cube chance in hell that you will hear from me

Again, the disclaimer is that this is purely my opinion and has no bearing on anyone else in this world cept me.

Hotblonde4U2have 56F
660 posts
9/5/2015 9:56 pm

 How about the emails that say or IM message Do u want to fuck ,like we have been friends for years. I am with u I have standards. The ones I don't like are will u marry me. Good grief.


crimsonsexygal replies on 9/5/2015 10:01 pm:
For those inappropriate IM messages, they get a "piss off" or just an outright block. Although I must admit, there were times I wanted to ask them; does that actually work with real women? I can understand it will work with men pretending to be women lol

My guess that is more real women would just tell them to go where the sun don't shine

Hotblonde4U2have 56F
660 posts
9/5/2015 10:04 pm

 My block list has grown very long.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
9/5/2015 10:57 pm

 Your conservative kind of office like attire is very
classy!It adds a very nice touch to a place like this.
Using more than all the road!


freogirl66 57F  
38 posts
9/6/2015 6:34 am

 it really annoys me as well - when I am msged by someone in IM I always take the time to check out their profile

I am clear about travelers, smokers and dick pics but it makes no difference


Sensuallyourss 57M
195 posts
11/25/2015 7:50 pm

 It much easiler to hide behind the consider and make comment and try their luck and ignore your preference, I guess the downside with such site and other ...


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