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Blogs > phoenix71rebirth > Flamed by the Phoenix

And then you shag ...  

phoenix71rebirth 52F
181 posts
7/5/2015 11:41 pm
And then you shag ...

Right so we have pretty much established that I am a demisexual who thrives on brains.

Getting into my pants is only possible if at some level I have connected with you and its because I actually desire you enough to want it that much ... there are times I might desire you but I never let you get further than some heavy snogging.

Its all mental connect - it has to be there first the magic click in my brain and then you're in.

So now the tragedy with that is as I have found, I connect but you don't - you're the NSA FWB no commitments no dramas no nothing - and that sucks big time for a demisexual who sieves through so many to find the one turns that magic switch on.

And so it then becomes a shag and nothing more. I want to relive the magic, you want just the shag when its available.

I suppose the middle ground is to find that balance that keeps me happy satisfied and keeps you happy satisfied - but that cannot exist in a demi's mind and psyche.

You see the reason you got that far was we saw and felt magic and once it strikes us that we're just one of the pickings to warm your loins, the magic fades or even if we cannot disconnect mentally we distance ourselves ... because for a demi its the exclusivity of that connect ... we are NEVER meant to be a part of a harem.

And so we shagged ... and that's all it was to you.

xpackmk1 64M
15 posts
7/6/2015 12:36 am

 Chance would be a fin3 thing ? SWERVE


risen_phoenix71 replies on 7/6/2015 3:14 am:
and now you know why I swerve swerve so much ...
Its to avoid the disappointments
Chance was something I tried 20yrs ago ...
Today I cannot be bothered really ... anyways ...

newmarket_stud 64M

7/6/2015 12:20 pm

 So what happens when just communicating gives a thrill, when an email can give rise to butterflies, how then would that translate to an actual meeting?
Perhaps just a brushing of the lips or a simple touching of hands would feel like electricity.
Sometimes you just have to trust, not just your own feelings but also that other person!
Sometimes that's just how it is, the magic may last or just fade like ripples when a stone skims the surface but if you never trust, you never know!


risen_phoenix71 replies on 7/6/2015 4:45 pm:
Sometimes a real meet dissipates the mental image.
But I agree yes ride that moment and no regrets.
Butterflies and electric shocks ... been there many times in my life .. what ab adrenalin rush and feel good.

Hugsss

centaur1970 53M

8/11/2015 2:46 am

 I didn't mean to be pretentious when I mentioned my first gf, the princess from Bahrain. I just threw that out there since you're in UAE, kind of close to Bahrain. She's my soul sister and an amazing person. She is very connected and set up a bid war between 3 movie studios, for the movie rights to this series of super- natural fantasy books I've been working on for almost 8 years. She also got me into Penguin Publisher, the 2nd best in the world. SONY Pictures won the final bid, which ended on X-mas Eve 2013, and the final bid was $1.5 billion. She haggled my share up from 1% up to 1.3%. Unfortunately, they decided it was too ambitious of a project and pulled the plug on it, in late March of 2014. She didn't tell me until last November, because she was scared I would nut up. I was crushed!


centaur1970 53M

8/11/2015 3:01 am

 I was surprised when I checked out your profile. I read your blogs too. I like your writing style and the concept of demi-sexual is interesting. I can relate to that a little bit. The blog about chat rooms brought back memories because I used to glitch out on Yahoo Chat. It used to jam until it got overrun with porn bots. I can't even go in them any more. Too many trolls, meanies, and they take it too serious.

I just wanted to send you a note and let you know I'm not a mindless lurker and I wasn't trying to front. I'm very passionate about my writing. I'm almost up to 12,000 pages on this series and I've got 10 other books finished, and two published. You seem like a trip and I think you're pretty neat. Keep it Demi!


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