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Blogs > phoenix71rebirth > Flamed by the Phoenix

Growth Teacher  

phoenix71rebirth 52F
181 posts
9/5/2015 3:55 am
Growth Teacher
Apparently that's my Love Type ...

And it's quite true. In the relationships I have had on any level, I invest so much time and effort and usually end up out in the cold rain with no umbrella.

It's left me drained on many levels.

Lately it seems its not even worth the effort - at least not from a romance point of view. I cannot wrap my emotions around aloof individuals who want to take the affections but never reciprocate at even a fraction.

On the professional level too I have grown tired of the takers never any givers or sharing kinds to be found. I give the best of me to nurture and to care and now it seems its best to just pull back and recharge.

And to top the icing on the cake with a sugar plum, when I started looking at taking care of me, loving myself, being happy with my life - I got labelled self centred self absorbed bitch.

Irony from the same people who'd grown so used to just taking taking taking on every level of a relationship ....

The world is a funny place. So if I am a bitch for wanting to be happy before making irrational choices then so be it!
ecapsretro 50M
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9/5/2015 4:33 am

 i have people well friends and whether they need physical,emotional,or just a shoulder to cry on or someone to make them smile and brighten their day all they have to do is ask and i'll be there.but when there done with me they put me back in the box and ignore me until they either need me again or run into me and ask where have you been,why haven't you called as if my phone is the only one that sends and receives calls.But i have always tried to adhere to the golden rule,except that i treat them better than they treat me.mainly because when it reaches that point when i've had enough of it icwll them shit friends and explain why to them.not that they would be a real freind


risen_phoenix71 replies on 9/5/2015 10:43 am:
Yup I know that all too well.

When it's an emergency for them hell you gotta be there pronto in a blink and hold their hand through it all.

When it's an emergency for you - you might get a text after the event with "ok", "been busy" ... not a query if you're dead or alive.

I've deleted "friends" from my phonebook, social media, email addresses, unfriended and even blocked some leeches along the way ... and then they get offended when they cannot even manage the to add you to their calendar at least to say Happy Birthday/New Year/Christmas ....

I hear you ! and

rm_mogen2 87M
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2318 posts
9/7/2015 10:08 am

 Keep working at it.
It's never equal or perfectly just but
it can improve.


newmarket_stud 64M

10/17/2015 2:14 am

 And there was me thinking I was your type x


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