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Blogs > phoenix71rebirth > Flamed by the Phoenix

It's Sad When  

phoenix71rebirth 52F
181 posts
5/5/2016 9:05 pm
It's Sad When

The very same person (s) who seemed to have been drawn in by your intelligence and wit try to make you a fool.

It's honestly insulting.

The number of times in my life that people in general and men more specifically momentarily find a novelty about me.

My lack of pretty I make up with wicked sense of humour, an ever learning mind, an independence from having learnt depending on others for my happiness is like giving them the gun and helping pull the trigger.

I approach life with as much empathy and love for everyone because I do not stand in their shoes to judge their choices.

So it breaks my heart when people as transient as they are in my life feel it necessary to use my caring against me as they play me for a fool they once novelly called intelligent.

If I were to approach every interaction with suspicion that this will be another asshole in the making ... I feel I might become an asshole myself ... drowing in negativity.

Cautiously I try to navigate these leaving my instinct to guide me .. but oh so often people will play a number and leave me standing alone picking up pieces of an already severely broken heart.

When you are someone like me who gives my all in every relationship romantic or otherwise, ... you never see the tears or hear my heart break when you unceremoniously cast me aside and move on with your life having taken a lil bit me ... that being whole again is a challenge.

I am not delusional or obnoxious. Just honest and trusting of the world in hope we can be better to each other.

It's sad when you know people don't care.
And so you choose solitary coupled wt celibacy to not break your own heart repeatedly.

Merlinmystic 60M
58 posts
5/5/2016 9:12 pm

 Truely, it is sad.
It is difficult at times to pick up the pieces.
Hope you find the strength to go on and meet life.


phoenix71rebirth replies on 5/6/2016 12:32 am:
Am a pro at picking myself up and moving forward. No worries kawan semua ada baik

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
5/5/2016 9:50 pm

 I am exactly the same way.I guess I am lucky though since I don't get that chance to even be dumped.I initially thought I would meet someone.Been to busy dodging bullets.I won't include everyone not caring as you have .It's women that don't care.Wheres the work or effort.They clobber confidence of others and just get to pick and choose.
sorry your going through this.You have all the options to change up any situation you're in though!
Using more than all the road!


phoenix71rebirth replies on 5/6/2016 12:34 am:
Its neither really men or women its just that person's nature to not care about the pain the leave behind.

I might have chosen solitary life not so much as a fear of people but knowing I read the signs long before the execute it.

Merlinmystic 60M
58 posts
5/6/2016 10:13 pm

 Kawan sini ada baik.
Harap kamu dalam keadan sihat di musim panas gila gila di sana


phoenix71rebirth replies on 5/7/2016 5:16 am:
Biasa ... kawan .. patah hati ... sakit jiwa .. semuanya ditentukan oleh Yang Maha Esa. Kami hanya pelakon sandiwara yang bertajuk Hidup.

Thank you for asking.

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