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Blogs > phoenix71rebirth > Flamed by the Phoenix

Illogical Logic  

phoenix71rebirth 52F
181 posts
5/14/2016 8:27 am
Illogical Logic

Of chatrooms is that despite the fact its meant to be a point people come together to interact we always find the chatroom "gang"

Nearly a year ago I wrote about the same thing. At that time I could not understand why some people just had to be so vile and thrive on it.

A year later I still don't get it and am now frequently targeted by one such group ... although at times it feels like a few individuals with multiple personality disorder talking amongst themselves.

The bullying can get really bad. The use passive aggressive. .. they use repeated myths to living legend ... they use insult ... they character assassinate. All this while playing injured party.

They have they profiles turned off you can't ignore them.
They make endless complaints and get people banned and yet they themselves never do .... makes me think Black Flirting pays these cartoons to create angst.

They would put the CIA FBI Mi5 Mossad KGB agents to shame with they amazing intel on everyone .... forget that the rhetoric is copy paste hour in hour out just change the target and juggle the lines.

They also are highly trained in hacking IP so I can be in Dubai they will say I am someone else someplace else. They know my other avatars ... when I have but 1 and for a celibate they have my deviant sexual history.

Bravo bravo .... we need folks like this to find the terrorists of the world!

While I find it irksome, but bullies who call others bullies don't bother me. I been bullied enough to shrug and laugh about some delusional lonely vile heart on a keyboard miles away thinks their notion of me matters.

But in a world already so unhappy, ... why must these sorts of people bring their bile online. Face your demons not try to fob them off on strangers whose shoes you aren't standing in.

Mitch Albom's 5 people you meet in heaven is something I try to be conscious off in my interactions with known and unknown people. My actions towards a person could be the make or break unconsciously in that person's decisions.

I would hate to meet someone who my thoughtless unkindness contributed to their death. Rather if my kindness and empathy helped someone see a chance to make things better .. that would be a pay it forward for all the support and courage complete strangers have shared with me past present and in the future.

I was feeling tad negative after today's episode but thought sharing it might change my mood and it has ... I believe in being sunshine and smiles to everyone ... even to the haters coz I am not standing in their shoes.

Peace people ... find your happy.

kinkfreak2 53M
2 posts
5/14/2016 8:34 am

 I have noticed this as well. It is shameful how people behave online in many ways. I am sorry you have to endure this on here.


phoenix71rebirth replies on 5/14/2016 9:37 am:
Me am ok ... I have balls to counter but the quieter ones ... so many ppl get banned for no reason. Site has gone to rubbish.

sasha3676 66F  
114 posts
5/14/2016 8:55 am

 This is one of the reasons I don't even consider venturing into chatrooms and actually have real phone conversations and meet in real life.Mitch Alboms book is great and everyone should treat people with kindness and respect


phoenix71rebirth replies on 5/14/2016 8:59 am:
Exactly. I totally agree with you.
I prefer the old school conversations face to face.

I meet over coffee and get to know ppl ... kindness costs nothing

Have an awesome weekend

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