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Blogs > phoenix71rebirth > Flamed by the Phoenix

Reflections of A Man - Amari Soul  

phoenix71rebirth 52F
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10/9/2016 5:09 am
Reflections of A Man - Amari Soul

I was curious looking at the title and having read some snippets.

Mr. Soul isn't telling me anything I don't already know or haven't realised in these 45yrs. But sometimes even we strong women need reiteration on things we already know because we've lived it ... experienced it .... survived it.

Some people think we're disillusioned. Hold on to unrealistic standards. We'd be luckier if we weren't so rigid about what we want in men. We should adapt compromise accept ... but why?

I used to when I liked someone be there all the time. Always putting them before myself because I thought that was what it meant to care. The one thing I have since learnt the hard way is the moment someone believes you need them they stop desiring to be wt you.

Mr. Soul aptly puts it as you read his short succinct chapters ... my take away - don't chase for love. I might feel strongly about some men but I don't want to demand their attention ... they will do all the chasing until I say yup I feel the same way too and suddenly they become inaccessible. The hunt is over.

Then I end up feeling like bloody rubbish for allowing myself to feel affection for someone who only wanted the high of the hunt.

Sorry men of the world ... I might deeply have loved some of you in the past but you taught me you don't care about me on bit. And time and again your brothers have proven they like a challenge ... they like to say they broke down the walls and then they broke me and left.

Now what you have done is really allow me to watch with mild amusement you pull your bag of tricks on me each time ... but I am a veteran of your collective deceit ... I chase no one anymore. You lure me I play along ... then before you stop chasing I disappear ... how does it feel to be played by your own game?

Me being strong is not an option but a necessity because I am just a woman in your eyes not a person.

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