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Confidence, Overly-Aggressive, or Just an Asshole  

Fitnerd1000 44M
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5/5/2015 3:47 pm
Confidence, Overly-Aggressive, or Just an Asshole

So I have been pondering the question of how to strike the correct balance between being confident and being laid-back/accommodating. I know that many (probably most) women find confident men very desirable. I have always considered myself confident. However, I don't think my confidence always comes through in a way that indicates I am confident and comfortable and self-assured. The problem is that I do not want to come across as overly-aggressive or as a flat out asshole. I am very laid back and easy going. That does not mean I lack confidence. It just means that I try to adapt to what people want and I try to be accommodating and reasonable. However, I think this is often interpreted as weakness or as a lack of confidence. So I am curious how to strike that delicate balance of showing others that I am confident and self-assured, but also letting people know that I am reasonable and accommodating as well. I would love to hear anyone's thought on the matter.

CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
5/5/2015 5:14 pm

 I think the sexiest thing about a person is when they are comfortable in their own skin and who they are.

Cool, calm & collected until it's time to be is what works for me.
Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


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