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My 1st! (Blog Post that is!)  

Ont_Bulldog9 51M
5 posts
9/18/2015 8:14 pm
My 1st! (Blog Post that is!)


This is something I've been mulling over for around 5 years. You would think that after 5 years, I would know what I want to say for my first blog, but alas I am finding myself rambling on.

How about I start by introducing myself.

My name is Ont_Bulldog9. My name comes from where I live (Ontario), Bulldog has been used to describe me (my build and stoic determination, not the lose jowls and drool), and the number 9 (my favourite number).

Now that I've introduced myself, allow me to tell you more. I'm 43, married, I have two girls. You might be surprised to know that I'm not here to meet someone to fuck or even to have a relationship. That may have been my intention 6 or 7 years ago when I first signed up on here, but I never attempted to meet anyone. I just couldn't find a way to put myself out there that I was comfortable with. Yes I'm married and on a sex site. Feel free to judge away if you must. I for one try not to judge. I don't know what people have gone through to get to where they are today. Just as anyone who may read this, doesn't know what I've been through to get to where I am today.

So I'm married, as you read. Happily? For the most part, yes. Is it perfect? Hell no! If you're married and say it's perfect, I will call you a liar. (Yes I tend to call things as I see them.)
My wife is truly one of the nicest people I've had the pleasure to know. She's pretty, intelligent, a great mother and a good wife. She is also very introverted and not very open minded when it comes to sex. (hence the original idea to join this place). We've been married 14 years and I'm proud to say we are best friends.
So why am I still here on this site and now finding the balls to write a blog? Well I'm hoping to figure that out over the course of writing many blogs in the future.
I have lurked around the blogs for years. I guess I'm a bit of a voyeur that way. I've enjoyed reading about the triumphs and tragedies of the bloggers here. I have had some written contact with some bloggers and I've admired some from the sidelines as a classic lurker. I finally decided that blogging here just might be a way for me to try to make sense of the mess that runs around in my head. Get it out there and release some of it. Tell some of my stories and hopefully some of them may interest you. Some may be funny. Some may be sexy. I hope you enjoy them.
So more about myself. I'm 43, I live an hour and a half east of Toronto, in a small town, but I did grow up in the city. I'm average height, I'm a little on the heavy side but thats due to a combination of fat and muscle. I've played sports all my life and still continue to enjoy an active life.
So let's talk about sex... (insert Salt'nPeppa soundtrack).
I love sex. I've been a very sexual person since I lost my virginity at 16. (great story...I will write about it soon.) I've had many experiences. Most of them were great. Some, not so much. I'm hoping to share some of them as I'm sure they will entertain.
On that note I'm going to quit while I'm ahead and wrap up my first blog post.
Hopefully you enjoy it. Please leave a comment. Say hello. Encourage me to continue.
Thanks for reading!
(I'm guessing you are trying to get Salt'nPeppa out of your head right about now! You're welcome!!)

LadyUnlaced 49F
34177 posts
9/19/2015 7:06 am

YOU MADE IT! See, that wasn't so hard, was it?! Congratulations on your first blog and I will drop by to read more stories. Definitely want to hear how you lost your virginity

xoxo

Free your mind. Open your heart. Move a mountain. An Open Book...

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Ont_Bulldog9 replies on 9/19/2015 7:16 pm:
Thanks Lulu! It wasn't as hard as I thought it would be. Thanks again for your encouragement.

rm_Jacqetta 56F
79 posts
9/19/2015 8:09 am

Hi! I used to blog here but left 6 years ago. I remember having a lot of fun, though there was also some amusing drama happening too, lol. I hope to reacquaint myself to the place and find new friends. You made a nice first post and I hope all goes well for you.


Ont_Bulldog9 replies on 9/19/2015 7:19 pm:
Thanks for reading and commenting on my first post. I remember reading some of that drama back then. I'm hoping to keep my blog as drama free as possible. Welcome back and hopefully you find what you are looking for. I'm hoping to figure out what I'm looking for with a little help through my blog.

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