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Blogs > bipolybabe69 > "..yes I said yes I will Yes."

Revenge Porn aka  

bipolybabe69 62F
404 posts
4/23/2016 9:36 am
Revenge Porn aka

Single guys, on this site or other swinger websites, know how challenging it can be to get a couple to agree to MFM coupling. There are some guys who enjoy the cuckold experience or watching their wife or girlfriend fuck another guy. But, in my experience, most swinger couples seek couples or the mythical "unicorns" with no expectations except to be the middle of a FMF experience.

The Unavailable Guy (TUG), whose heart was unavailable to me, used to beg, "Just let me stay in the closet and watch" when I'd get together with one of my sexy gal pals.

Then, he and I did a comparison, using an Excel spreadsheet, of our satisfaction with sex parties or play with other couples. It turned out that I enjoyed myself most when I fucked him and he was unhappy whenever I cock blocked him because I felt jealous or insecure. You see, I wanted to be special in his eyes, and I discovered that new pussy, any new pussy, was actually more important to him. I believe if he'd been into me, I'd have been okay with swinging. I don't really know because I never had that feeling of being chosen or, even, appreciated for my willingness to experiment with him. When I realized this, I quit after nearly a year of swinging.

So, fast forward to this year's focus: volunteering as a hotline counselor for survivors of non-consensual sexual experiences. As part of the continuing education for my role, I recently watched a video about "Revenge Porn." I'd had no idea that websites existed where pissed off exes (99% male) would post naked or sex photos of their former girlfriends and wives, along with derogatory comments and, often, their private information: phone number, email or actual address. Most of us --especially younger women-- don't think through the potential consequences of taking sex photos or sexting nude pix to someone we're dating. We're in love and it's sexy naughtiness.

Learning of Revenge Porn, I was horrified. Apparently, it's really hard for this stuff to be wiped clean off the internet once posted. One site will remove it (upon request of the person pictured) but visitors to the site may post the offensive materials elsewhere. It's also really hard to prosecute someone for endangering the life of an ex by posting home addresses or harassment by sharing contact information. Then, there's the<b> humiliation </font></b>factor!

So, I fantasized about acting out my feeling of "Hell has no fury like a woman scorned," but I thought about how awful I'd feel if I were similarly exposed and discarded the idea.

But, my sleeping brain --still hard at work resolving my disappointment with TUG-- came up a new twist.

I dreamed that TUG and I had reached a point of enjoying being "just friends," not having sex together and feeling no tension about the past. (I was very conscious in my dreams of resisting the urge to fuck him again because, even though I was elated and miserable in equal measure during the time we dated, my attraction to his body has not lessened. But I know he's toxic for me.)

Anyway, in my dream, TUG and I were cuddled on the bed in his condo chatting about nothing when half a dozen of my hottest bi girlfriends started coming into the bedroom, sitting on the edge of the bed to chat with us and drape themselves about the room to make out with one another.

TUG got out of bed and went to brush his teeth. I called out after him, but he didn't hear me. He poked his head around the corner from the bathroom, toothbrush in hand, "What did you say, hun?" he asked.

I repeated "Did you ever imagine that your bedroom would be filled with half a dozen hot babes naked or in lingerie?"

Looking around the room, he said, "In my dreams." Then he added, "But I never imagined that NONE of them would be interested in me."

When I awoke, the idea of my hot sexy friends unwilling to spread their legs for him made me laugh out loud: Perfect Revenge Porn.

Muahahahaha!

BiPolyBabe69 aka Angie

1942_bob 81M
380 posts
4/23/2016 10:42 am

 Revenge porn doesn't have to be porn at all. S.everal women on here have been threatened or had their pics used with out their knowledge . Some pics from other web sites. Some from ex boyfriends. Just saying


69bud69 70M
7134 posts
4/27/2016 11:10 am

 One has to respect your totally open and honest approach to a possible future relationship.
It's not asking to much. I don't think anyway.

Bud
Always Ready for Fun.


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