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Public humiliation Before you get any ideas, this is not about the public humilition you will see on xhamster, or redtube, or whatever porn site you use. This is about my little adventure gone wrong and I'm struggling to put this one behind. me. Went back to the swingers club I mentioned in a previous blog (actually been back a few time and kind of pictured myself becoming a regular). Not a busy night, but great atmosphere, great people and really good banter. Chatted to another couple for a little while and it was quite clear straight away we'd see them upstairs later on  Not long after, me and my date went upstairs and joined this couple in one of the rooms. My date with this stunning lovely girl and me with her partner. We were standing kissing, feeling each other up and he pulled my dress off me. Then turned around and walked away. Left me standing there half naked. Just left me!!!! And to my total shock quite a lot of people had come into our room and watched it all happen. He was standing next to my date and this girl. After a little while I put my dress back on, went downstairs into the smoking room and cried my eyes out. How could anyone do something like this! Doesn't matter if you know them or not, you don't do this to anyone. Sat there sobbing in the smoking area (yes, I am now a smoker again as well). My date came in after a while. Was so sorry and said that as soon as he found out what was going on he came looking for me. Took him long enough since it was the 2 guys with one girl, so I'm not buying it that he only realised about 20 minutes later I wasn't there. I thought I was ok afterwards for a few days, but I now realise I'm not. Don't sleep at night, just going over and over what the hell happened and how someone I don't know can make me look like such a fool. Ego shattered to bits, confidence gone. It usually only takes a few days to get over disappointments, and most of the time I don't care at all and just replace one arsehole for a hopefully nicer person, but this time I can't seem to shake it off. No more swingers clubs and think I'm done with online dating for now. I do have some jaw dropping first messages saved I will put on here at some point, so will still enter bloggers land on occasion. And hope this useless, worthless feeling will disappear soon. . x |
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That's not how to treat a lovely lady like you, Pringle. Come here for a big warm tight hug, hopefully it helps you feeling better now  Pringle
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Aye sorry, it was a bit ambiguous who I was trying to describe. The guy who undressed you and left you there, did you get the chance to speak to him after? I guess he doesn't realise what he was doing wasn't appreciated by everyone, or is more used to someone who he can do that to without any thought. No discussions beforehand as to limits, boundaries, needs/wants, dislikes/turnons, that kind of thing? In any case, hope it hasn't put you off completely.
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Hmm, that wasn't very nice at all. Did you get the chance to speak to this partner afterwards?
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