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Frustrated How many people out there are in a relationship that is having a dry spell? Once every 2-3 weeks doesn't work for me. I'm horny 24/7 & he's just not interested. Says he's tired & stressed. Am I the crazy one, or an I missing something I should be doing to get him in the mood? HELP!!!! 
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I'd be happy with every 2-3 weeks given months, years of excuses of being tired ...... I know we're all different so a solution I've sought is to not try to expect or force another into being my all and accept them. Well, works so-so at best (isn't really working except for the acceptance since other options have not materialized). I don't know the answer as you can tell.
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every 2-3 weeks? almost sounds like heaven! try every 4-6 weeks only ... there is no better stress relief than sex. your man is making excuses for something else!
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No.you're not wrong to want more than that. Should be at least 2 to 3 times a week or there's a problem. Standards are people too.....kinda 
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Times change and people change, it goes with the territory.
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Why are you in a relationship?? Go date some other men, more than one. That way you have a ready bull-pen of guys ready to fill you up.
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P.s. Dump him , and stop wasting your life time. If you are trying to groom him for something more serious than playing bf and gf, you're a fool. This is the best sex life you're going to get out of him. Think about it.
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sorry but no one is that stressed
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Hate to say it but someone's not playing well , at least not with you. Just saying .
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LatinFirefly replies on 4/19/2016 6:29 am: Guess I'm old fashion & believed in marriage was forever. Starting to second guess that now. ---------------------------------------- Oh, you're married, that kind of relationship. Not a wise move in this century. Marriage was never forever. Only seemed like it was, because when the concept of marriage was made up, people mostly died of old age in their 40s and 50s.
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LatinFirefly replies on 4/19/2016 2:12 pm: Yeah I'm married, we've been together since high school. Guess that's where the dry spell is coming from too. And I guess you're right. Huh! -------------------------------------------- Since High School? Well no wonder. In HS we're just kids barely coming into our own. So of course in 10 or 15 years [of togetherness] and personal growth there's going to be a curiosity about what was missed. I'd suggest "Opening" your marriage, and see how that works, but I think, due to you both being together from HS, once you start getting "Out there", you're going to feel awkward dating, because the people are your age now, and you and your husband only have the dating maturity of kids in high school. So as I see it, for what it's worth, you can help each other get through this, or not
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Good luck.
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