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On today's episode of 'Ask Secret_lade'....
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Oh hell. I’m sorry, but that’s funny. Ah, the horny, messaging drunks that stay up way to late and could’ve used that time to just shut up, masturbate and go to bed. I miss those. 🤣🤣
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use the info for good and not evil.. sometimes evil takes over
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I don't respond to messages unless I have time to spare toying with a foreign scammer.
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So far, I haven't had any experiences like that. It could just be that there are far fewer women on here than men.... Or that the men tend to be a little more apt to reach out and start a conversation than a woman. It's too bad people there are people out there that do this stuff, it ruins it for everyone.
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Sometimes I'm pleased I don't get much mail!
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No good deed goes unpunished....hoo boy.
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That's why I love...and use the hell out of....the BLOCK feature! Not only do I click block when on the message section but I go into my blocked list and make sure all the boxes are checked and saved so I don't hear from that person again.
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I have 8" for ya if you can handle it...lol. I would never think in a million years to say that to someone I was trying to impress. But it doesn't surprise me that others do. I must admit that once again I was kind of laughing when I read this, I think I know you well enough that you weren't joking around. Here's an idea don't write back to him again instead write to me. We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious
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Those openers are closures for sure
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And this is why we don't respond to those who we aren't interested in, class.
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he asked for help and you did, you gave him some. my guess is that it wasn't the type of 'help' he was looking for. but y'know, even when you give a simple no, thanks reply that can also backfire as well. it can be hit or miss depending on whether or not you're dealing with a person that has a full basket or not. you got a basket case on your hands, secret good luck with that.
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Dumpster FIRE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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So "let's fuck" is not a good opening line? LOL Having been to a few dumpster fires, both literally and figuratively, I can say they are nothing but a pain in the ass.
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I had a handsome friend many years ago who told me he used a straight forward, blunt approach to pick up women. He insisted such an approach doesn't waste time and he knows exactly where he stands with her. I couldn't believe he used such a blatant approach until one time in a bar in Prince Albert. We were seated with three flight attendants we recognized from a regional airline, and out of the blue, he looked at one and said, "do you want to fuck?" She looked shocked but smiled and said, "yes". Off they went!
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Yeah, I felt pity on someone too, answered their question, and BOOM, I'm in the middle of whackadoodle town where the dude won't stop emailing me his opinions on women. Reiterated why I just stick to autoreply for most. This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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Those types just need to call a hooker. But, I guess too poor or too cheap for it.
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I don't use open liners because I'm only here to meet friends...NOT to hook up!
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1/11/2022 5:45 am |
Makes me think of an old country song: "The Fireman" by George Strait. Happy Tuesday to you too! I'm a standard member, so normal messaging doesn't work. But we can chat on my blog, "We Can Talk Here"
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Oh hell. I’m sorry, but that’s funny. Ah, the horny, messaging drunks that stay up way to late and could’ve used that time to just shut up, masturbate and go to bed. I miss those. 🤣🤣 Have a great day! 💋 Staci
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use the info for good and not evil.. sometimes evil takes over goodbuddy781
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1/11/2022 4:20 am |
I don't respond to messages unless I have time to spare toying with a foreign scammer.
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Sometimes I'm pleased I don't get much mail!
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No good deed goes unpunished....hoo boy. My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment
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We'll talk about what NOT to say when trying to meet members of the opposite sex. As you all know, it's the opening line that get's the attention. Funny, intelligent, artfully crafted openers will draw me in every time... Long enough to catch my attention but not so long I'm reading about the best friend in kindergarten who grew up to be an eye doctor. As a wearer of eye glasses.... I think I might actually like to meet that kindergarten best friend. I feel we may have something in common! But, I digress... Just keep it simple! And, for God's sake, avoid these openers altogether! -Are you real? -im in town for the weekend wanna hookup -i have 8 inces to feed ya -I'm going through some shit, I'd like to just fuck for a while to get my mind off it. I'm here to say, those openers?? Those openers are just a disaster waiting to happen. Nothing good can come of saying those words to ANYONE. Especially me. I see openers like this and and I see a smoldering dumpster fire just waiting to rage out of control. Exchange a message or two and you've got a blazing inferno of failed marriages and anger issues, topped off with a restraining order on top! Yah..... No. I had received one of those messages last weekend and did not respond. I was tempted to say, no I'm not real, but I didn't. I just left it unanswered and chose to move on. But, when the sender messaged me again with a semi-heartfelt message stating he was new to the online dating scene and he needed some help, I felt bad for him. And messaged him back. I explained a few of the frustrations that I experience on the site in hopes that he could use it to better his approach, possibly help him out a little on his quest, and hoped he'd be able to use the info for good and not evil. That backfired in my face, this dumpster fire is burning out of control now. Wish me luck folks, I'm going to need a pretty big fire extinguisher for this one! Happy Tuesday!
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