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ill mannered bitches!!!  

cupcake_66 57F
28 posts
12/20/2016 10:41 am
ill mannered bitches!!!

Him:
well I hope you make time to get to know me better, till then be well

Me
am sure I could, but am not interested....good luck in your search.

Him:
see there is the difference between a kind person with class and one who is a rude, insecure, ill mannered bitch, I said good bye to you and wished you well leaving the door open to if you ever decided to be friends, but you felt the need to let me know your Not Interested in me just so you could please your own desire to feel superior. but that must be why your a married woman looking for affection here huh? sorry I bothered you, it wont happen again

Me
excuse me? gees, talk about ill mannered bitches...could have said so many things that would have been rude, however, I was polite, said that I wasnt interested, and even wished you good luck in your search, and I am the ill mannered bitch. One that needs to feel superior? Um, think not, never do I think I am better or superior to anyone, am sitting here laughing at your statement cause, lordy, boy did you call this one wrong.
Anyway, thanks for the laugh and for proving to me that I was right is stating that I am not interested....and still, I do wish you luck in finding what you are looking for....enjoy Black Flirting..

Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
12/20/2016 12:30 pm

 Wow, this is what so many of us ladies deal with here..totally uncalled for!!!
Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


cupcake_66 replies on 12/21/2016 6:47 am:
thank you..and yea, this was by far the 'worst' response I got from thanks but not interested..usually get an ok or good luck to you too.

hotrodxxxx60 53M
90 posts
12/20/2016 1:18 pm

 so many asses on here, and not of the attractive kind!!!


cupcake_66 replies on 12/21/2016 6:48 am:
yea, and if he had an attractive ass, well, may not have posted that! LOL

scottj55555 55M
1987 posts
12/20/2016 1:25 pm

 Still don't understand why it's so difficult for some to be polite to people on here. Thanks for looking, good luck to you. It's not too tough.


cupcake_66 replies on 12/21/2016 6:55 am:
thank you....sadly some feel that they are better than others as they sit behind the screen and do and say as they want.

northshoretake2 50M  
1626 posts
12/20/2016 2:46 pm

 To be honest, it's kind of a harsh expression: Sorry, I am not interested.

What are you implying? I don't find you attractive, interesting or desirable. And I believe I would be better off saying "no thanks" and looking for someone better.

I usually roll with it because, of course, we can't be everyone's type. But I don't think it ever comes off as politely as you might hope.

Hey cupcake.66- Thanks for the really thoughtful blog but I'm not interested.

See!

That's not to say his response was justified only that ... even polite words can sting. $0.02
Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.


cupcake_66 replies on 12/21/2016 6:59 am:
Thank you..while the truth does hurt, I could have said the hurtful truth but why? What benefit would it have added to either of us? To me, he just seemed very bitter and if that is correct, then he is going to have a very hard time on here, one needs to take almost everything with a grain of salt and deal as best you can with rejection.
I still think that his response was totally uncalled for but I have a clear conscious and wont change my response when I am not interested.

MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
12/20/2016 5:40 pm

 There is nothing wrong with saying. "Sorry, I am not interested." It doesnt matter how you say it, whether it be that or a simple "no" "no thanks" "we are not compatible", "I'm just not feeling it".......etc etc/..........it wont make a partical of difference in how it is viewed by a man. No means no and thats a word he should have learned when he was knee high to a grasshopper. Geez


cupcake_66 replies on 12/21/2016 7:12 am:
thank you but sadly some think that they can say what they want and you will take it. Well, sorry but I am not one, sure, I could have ignored his response as I have other totally rude ones, but I wanted him to know that his response was way unnecessary and maybe, just maybe he will show the next woman a tad more respect when she says no....

BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
12/20/2016 8:53 pm

 And men wonder why women don't reply. Seriously, who needs to get shit on just for trying to be courteous?


cupcake_66 replies on 12/21/2016 7:14 am:
I find it more rude to ignore (unless really abusive), than to be honest....

northshoretake2 50M  
1626 posts
12/20/2016 9:20 pm
    Quoting BrownEyedBBW:
    And men wonder why women don't reply. Seriously, who needs to get shit on just for trying to be courteous?
I'm of the belief that no reply is better than shooting someone down--for both men and women. Unfortunately, courtesy should be sacrificed since so many react badly.

As for the stubborn ones ...

"Because you haven't told him to eat shit, fuck off and go howl at the goddammned moon! The guy is not going to go away until you do!" How's that for harsh?

I guess that's what needs to happen.
Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.


cupcake_66 replies on 12/21/2016 7:15 am:
unless someone is abusive, I really in good conscious, ignore them...
its just not in me....

HamburgDave2 80M
16526 posts
12/21/2016 1:58 am

 Due to my age, I probably get more Knock Backs than many younger guys! I always reply with a "Thank you for your resonse".

We all know that the ratio of Men to Women on this site are not good for the men! However that is No Excuse, for Rude and Boorish behaviour!

Finally welcome to Blogland
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cupcake_66 replies on 12/21/2016 7:16 am:
thank you!!!

And to be honest, there is a 74 yr old that I have no interest (even if hee was local) in meeting, but we talk every day....so age really shouldnt have anything to do with at least chatting with someone.

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