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Need Tips in cash for chatting  

vidya_aunty 56F
36 posts
8/19/2017 6:06 am
Need Tips in cash for chatting

In spite of my requests through my earlier BLOG posts, there is no reduction in the number of messages I receive daily from young guys and others whom I am not interested. So my problem of responding remains as it is and when I am not responding some use very bad words to me in the next message.
Now I have invented a new method to control this. When I receive message from an unknown guy, I respond for 5 to 10 minutes and not more, just for courtesy. I tell them that if he wants to continue chat, he should pay me some tips in Cash and book a slot for 30 to 40 minutes. when I say so, most of the guys avoid continuing chatting. They tell some reason and exit form chatting. Some guys, who say that he can come by flight from his place to my place to meet me and bear all expenses for meeting for one night or host me at a tourist destination for few nights, suddenly run away from giving a small tips also.! So I conclude that he is a fake guy. And after that such people never message me !. Ultimately I am now using this method to avoid fakes wasting my time and coming in the way of my chatting with genuine guys.

Let me see for some more days how this works.

Ienjoythetaste 75M
2560 posts
8/19/2017 7:45 am

 As BiggLala says, it will also frighten away genuine guys who will think you are fake.

However anything to try and stop the fakes is worth trying.
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vidya_aunty 56F
1 post
8/19/2017 9:36 am

 Reply to Ban Bigglala and lenjoythetaste:

Now also some genuine guys may think that I am fake because I am not able to respond to their messages. Or I may respond once and may not be able to chat next time. So the chance of some people thinking me as fake is always there. But when I can filter some fakes in this way, my chances of chatting with genuine guys increases. So more number of genuine guys should be happy even though a few may still think that I am fake.


DiscreteFunSkr17 63M
Ask me for a photo
120 posts
8/19/2017 9:37 am

 Best of luck in your new sorting and weeding out method however yes agree with other posts may lose that treasure too.

Have a great Saturday. 😊


PowerPlay979 44M
99 posts
8/19/2017 11:00 am

 Well.....as has already been said by the above members, it cuts both ways, doesn't it ?

I just wish there was some way of doing it without introducing the money component.

I know it isn't the money. You don't need a cent of it. I know that. But the transactional nature of it.......it just doesn't sit right with a classy lady like you.

And not just class. In my experience of communicating with you, you have always come across as very dignified and courteous lady.

I know THAT is the real Vidya - beautiful, classy, elegant, dignified, and courteous.

But I'm a man. I've been a member here since 2008 and I know that women here receive a deluge of messages. Different people deal with it differently, I guess. As long as you are happy and feel you can exhale more freely, then that's what matters.

Have a good weekend, Vidya.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
8/19/2017 12:15 pm

 This is where anonymity creates new people everyday.I've never
considered them fake but the fact their hiding something from someone
for some reason has always been enough to wane any true desirability.
Most genuine men know how much a personality can change based
on the amount of attention one receives and see it more for
it's entertainment value and leave it at that.
Using more than all the road!


PowerPlay979 44M
99 posts
8/26/2017 11:15 am

 I hope things have settled down now, Vidya.

You really were uncharacteristically aggressive.

Very unlike the gracious Vidya we have all known.


venkatR109 38M
Ask me for a photo
16 posts
9/27/2017 6:46 am

 u soo hot that u attract guys


maturemaleind 47M
5 posts
12/20/2017 9:51 pm

 Good idea


delhi750 48M
4 posts
12/21/2017 7:03 am
    Quoting vidya_aunty:
    Reply to Ban Bigglala and lenjoythetaste:

    Now also some genuine guys may think that I am fake because I am not able to respond to their messages. Or I may respond once and may not be able to chat next time. So the chance of some people thinking me as fake is always there. But when I can filter some fakes in this way, my chances of chatting with genuine guys increases. So more number of genuine guys should be happy even though a few may still think that I am fake.
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PowerPlay979 44M
99 posts
11/26/2020 11:37 am

 Been a long time since one saw you here, Vidya. I hope all is well with you and that you are keeping well.


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