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Is it just me?  

hardandread2017 64M
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4/29/2017 10:42 am
Is it just me?

Maybe it's just my age and lack of experience in casual sex, but why do many of my messages involve possible encounters with those who practice S&M and Dom/Sub? If people can only get off by being chained to a whipping post and beaten with a flagellum, so be it. If people find the way to an orgasm by practicing what can best be described as exercise through the use of a jungle-gym, great! If women (or, men) achieve sexual release by being humiliated through male (or, female) domination, then go for it! Understanding that one must ask questions to determine the suitability of sexual partners, I seem to receive quite a few messages from those who practice these kinks.

For those who are into S&M and sexual calisthenics, I always advise that the last time I engaged in disciplined, physical exertion and pain was during the latter-half of my sophomore year of high school gym class, which was over 4 decades ago. Although I excelled in those activities, I no longer wish to climb ropes, jump hurdles, or climb on a jungle-gym, especially if doing so is the only way to have sex. In short: Been there; done that!

For those who need to be verbally, physically and emotionally dominated, I wish you the best in this kink. I was raised to be respectful to women and have no desire to unintentionally, let alone intentionally, inflict pain and/or<b> humiliation </font></b>on others. Nothing in my profile information would leave one to surmise otherwise. I do not judge others, but can only hope that you can find solace in that lifestyle.

Am I too old for these 'kinks' of modern, casual sex? Yup. Can I still "get it up?" Absolutely! Will I find others who want sex with friends that do not require the extremes of the aforesaid 'kinks?' We'll see. . .

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