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Mixed messages
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Mixed messages OK ladies, I totally understand it. There are like one million of us guys trying to get into your pants. You have the right to be choosy. I don't expect you all to like me, hell I don't expect very many of you to like me. That's totally OK, what will be will be. But... you don't to send mixed messages either. If you aren't into me, then don't lead me on. Don't make plans to meet up only to then not respond to messages the day of the meetup. Look, I can tell when you are into me and when you aren't, it's honestly OK. not into every single profile that comes my way, just be honest and up front and move on. They will thank you for it. I know that some guys get all mad and take the rejection personally, and you want to be polite and not say anything. But honestly, just ignore them that's what the ignore settings are for if they make more than a big deal about it. Or better yet, screen capture their tirade and post it on your own blog. They don't deserve anything more for behaving that way. I get it, be choosy, hell choosy. I want physical attraction, and I want a sexual chemistry/connection or nothing is going to happen. Let's be upfront... right? I guess the profiles that are verified/confirmed are more interested in getting together than just testing the waters, heck that is OK too. Just say it in your intro, set proper expectations and everyone will be happier as a result. Sorry for the Friday rant... 
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The gender disparity isn't the cause of this problem. For whatever reason, this site has changed a LOT over the past few years. Whatever reasons people have for being here today aren't generally the same reasons people signed up in years past. Those reasons aren't compatible with actually meeting (explanations too long to get into). Men and women alike are talking a good game online, yet neither can seem to get over the finish line. There's a direct correlation between how real things are getting and how fast things are breaking down. Everyone seems to want real intimacy (sex) ... but without the actual physical meeting part. However, most people aren't retrospective enough to recognize that in themselves. They don't know why they're here, other than it is filling some need.
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Thanks for all the great comments. I happen to find everything said in response very valid. My "rant" didn't name names or specifics and I didn't feel that was really fair to do in this case. I guess that my main issue is that I'm here for a particular reason and I'm going to be up front about what that is in the beginning and set expectations up front. If I only wanted an online friend, I would say so, or if I wanted some very specific type of relationship I would say so. I've already gone through the idea in my head of meeting someone for real. Would it be scary? Would it be safe? How would it play out? Etc... All of these things you probably should consider, but perhaps it's too easy to get yourself into something that seems casual and not real at first. Maybe we all make the wrong assumptions about why people are on this site and there should be an extra couple of filters and profile options to explain some of these things in greater detail. Otherwise it feels like there is a lot of talk flying around but nothing actually happening in the real world. Again, thank you to all the comments, very insightful.
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How’s that cock
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It's wondering why you aren't sitting on it yet...
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