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Introduction Title: IMs will be ignored. I play with others.
Introduction Title: IMs will be ignored. I play with others. This post is only viewable by Black Flirting members. Join Black Flirting now! |
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Respecting someone's limit is a huge part of something I was taught from when I was knee high to a grasshopper prior to falling into this rabbit hole. I feel very disrespected when someone does not read what I have written and will not tolerate this kind of treatment nor will I play with someone like this. Please let me know your thoughts. Thank you, Master's slave
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There are many that just don't care because it is the internet. But there are also standard members that supposedly can't view profiles (I am not one of them). If that is the case, they may be messaging you and others out-of-the-blue hoping the score a "live one" . My 2 cents.
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These are your constrains, people should respect them.. I see no problem, have a nice evening Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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It is disappointing when someone doesn't read a profile. I can turn the other cheek at times, maybe they had a few to many and feeling horny, it happens. But I find it very disappointing when one receives robo communications from so called members. Nothing like getting winks or emails from profiles that either don't exist, get shut down or are fabricated communications generated from some master entity. But here we are, souls looking for other souls. Peace
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You know you need to get over yourself, at least they tried contacting you the only way they can now since all the changes Black Flirting made, and to do that they still had to spend points on you, and the reason they wanted to do that baffles me!
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2/21/2020 6:17 pm |
if your decisions are set in stone why would my opinion matter there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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You most certainly do need to get over yourself. It's just an Instant Message. Get the fuck over that , too!
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2/21/2020 10:10 pm |
I wouldn't do that beautiful especially when you have specifically started that you dont want people to. I don't understand why anyone would still donit. Maybe they've been a taken back by your beauty and dont see anything else. Have a lovely weekend x
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I gather people still cannot read even my Introduction Title which specifically states: "IMs will be ignored. I play with others." ... So ignore the Instant Message. Problem solved. Meanwhile, regardless of what you say in your profile, men will IM you. Now get over it.
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Just don't log onto the IM .. put yourself as "busy" then no-one can contact you. I'm a bit confused as to why you are on here then, if you're not engaging/meeting people? I don't meet, but I clearly state that, but I do chat to people
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I'm in the same situation. Recently, I changed my profile and introduction to state that I'm just here to read the blogs, not to chat with anyone or try to meet. I still get IMs. If they want to waste 15 points (for standard members) or one of their daily opportunities (for gold), so be it. I just dismiss the IM notifications. It is very frustrating that there are those men who won't try to read, or if they do read, they dismiss it. That's part of why I decided to stop trying to meet anyone from here. You have my sympathy.
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2/23/2020 2:02 am |
"I ignore IMs from whomever since this is a sign to me of them being disrespectful towards me. I do not tolerate being treated in a manner that I have set as a limit." "I like to know what others have for opinions since I am still an evolving creature. Just because I have a certain limit for one thing at this time, does not mean that it has been set in stone. If this was the case, then I would never have asked?" one of these must be a untruth... unless you are just looking for validation. on this point i completely agree with you... we all have our likes, our dislikes, and they are ours to hold or fold bonne chance there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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2/23/2020 5:14 pm |
"You are also correct on the validation point. Sometimes, what I think should be a common courtesy is not necessarily that. I like to know what things might not be viewed in my mind set what is a more common and accepted practice." from what i read in the blogs common courtesy is uncommon here... if someone asks people not to IM them... then common courtesy would dictate not to send them a IM. if you make contact with someone and they are kind enough to reply "sorry not looking right now... common courtesy would dictate that you politely move on to the next victim with sexual intent (after all this is a body exchange site) now i will concede that Black Flirting has worked hard to dehumanise members and give the impression that there is no need to hold back our vulgarity, but rather to excuse it with points. as a believer that self respect should put us above that mindset i strongly disagree with such actions. "How else do we learn if we do not ask? " at our age we should know what is and what is not acceptable to us... and how much we will allow outside our moral/comfort zone... and act freely on that without consulting others as to what is acceptable to us hope that helps there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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