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date or age ?
date or age ? Im not a fan of dating...you know, dressed up, being picked up, fancy restaurant, wine and dine, get know each other...arghhhh....the whole process was too much. I much prefer 'get naked and fuck good' kinda way. but last wee.I thought, ok its been more than a year so let's try date. I got a few guys that always asked out instead of fuck . so here's probably where the problem started. Guy 1, tall, handsome, yrs older than , smells amazing. we sat in nice restaurant, had a nice food (I'm always happy with food) but as soon as we finished eating..the get know each other part kinda getting intense, I found myself sat there looked around felt bored death. I'm busy with my mind thinking a thousand way go home. I didn't found any. no sex obviously since he prefers date first. Guy2, I said yes him because I kinda tested myself..I had a theory of why I lose interest. he's very attractive, 9 older than , smells even better..and definitely hinted that he wanna fuck me but he wanna took me out first. so we did. the moment I sat in his car, I lose interest again. I just want to go home. I hate it a lot. I said sorry to both of them and tried to explain the reason why there won't be second date. Guy 3, just one of my fuck buddy, younger, we went out to grab some food, came home and had sex. didn't feel like runaway. I kinda thought that it's all because I just hate to date. they both attractive . but then maybe it's not about being in the restaurant or going out itself..but it's being with who they are?? after my break up last year, the oldest guy I fucked I think it's around 42 yrs old and thats only 1 guy. the rest was younger than . is it maybe that they're almost the same age as my ex? I probably in my mid life crisis but I read about it and it got nothing do with opposite sex' age. it's an awful feeling, I felt like I'm trapped sitting there in front of him, no way out. and I need tell my mind not panic so I won't left him there. the only time I felt relieve was when he asked me if I want a dessert (you should know by now that food made me happy haha). it's a shame because I liked both of them...not sure how it's gonna be if they will fuck me though, haven't go that far yet. but whenever I think of that feeling...it's like theres someone behind me kicked my ass so hard for me run. wtf is happen? until today, for age will never be a problem. age is only a number and it will always be. I couldn't be still have a trauma for a break up that happened a year ago, right?? anyone have some theories? |
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hope everyone doing well
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I'm with you. I prefer to get naked and fuck. NSA sex for me!!!
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Go with what’s more comfortable for you. Nothing worse than dating when you don’t want to be doing it.
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"Dating" doesn't have to be fancy. It's simply doing something together that isn't sex. Your fear of getting to know someone could definitely still be from your break-up or the men you dated recently could just be boring. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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7/26/2020 1:02 pm |
There is a wine and dine? Geez guess i am missing out on that lol
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It is simply a matter of your personality and your appetites, neither of which is a *problem* at all. If your suitors had access to (and/or took the time to read) your blog, they would quickly apprehend the futility of conventional dating with you. You are intense and impulsive. Both traits operate on *rocket fuel*, which means that the fuel tank is exhausted far more rapidly than a slow-burn diesel. Hence the window for someone to get in sync with your rhythm is much tighter than the mating rituals most people pursue. Above all, embrace your uniqueness. To be sure, it can be daunting (perhaps even unnerving) for the dull-normals. However, as you relate in your blog-posts, there are kindred spirits in this community (and elsewhere) who will both appreciate your penchant for *spontaneous combustion* and rise (literally and figuratively) to the occasion. Enjoy!
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sex starts between the ears. if your partner cant engage your mind, then they are jut a one off. but one offs are great now and then. win my mind, win my body
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7/26/2020 5:07 pm |
Hoping to get some points? Me too.
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There is both, being patience will make for some fine times, a good wine and dine. some time to get to understand who and what the other person is and wants , I had my first date in 20 years a few years back with a young lady from the site, I enjoyed the hell out of it and am still enjoying it.... Have a good day , wish you good luck in your life adventures... Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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Just seems like its not really the time for you. When you want someone to go do things with besides sex, then its time. I like taking my ladies somewhere, because I like experiencing things outside the bedroom, so long as we end up back in my bed Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women Things i miss most about relationships
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change your dating method : rendez-vous in a bed !!!
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