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Sexless Marriage  

TangledWeb54 57M  
4 posts
7/27/2020 7:13 am
Sexless Marriage


I little while back I read an article about sexless marriages and what constitutes a sexless marriage. All the while I'm thinking, "Chec...chec.. Chec Yep! That's . (Or us)."

If a couple has sex less than 4 times per year, it is considered a sexless marriage. It is really easy place blame, but I find that usually comes from a place of anger. I could feel really guilty and try feel around for my part in this.

The article said a lot of sexless marriages are due the woman having juggle work, ' care, housework, and other family issues. It kind of made it sound like men are off golfing with the guys, waiting for her bring him dinner, and ignoring the and forgetting their names.

That's not life in my house. My wife has a high-pressure job. And I get that. I do too. The difference is that men seek sex as relief from the job. Women need to have some sort of relief to get in the right mindset for sex. When we have sex, she loves it. But all the stars have to align for it to happen at all.

I suppose that's why I'm here. Maybe why a lot of guys are here, and women too.

TangledWeb54 57M  
1 post
7/27/2020 7:14 am

Shoot... I would happy happy with a good cuddle.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
7/27/2020 8:38 am

One thing ive learned is that its more than physical for some females....make love to her mind..romance her....flowers ..dinner...a poem....something out of the ordinary. Send her a note to meet at a hotel...or just pick her up and take her there. Maybe build in monthly date nights...away from the usual routine. She's gotta feel connected to your soul in a way. It is said that men stray for sex and women stray for emotion..~~


bbuckwwheat 65M
6265 posts
7/27/2020 10:27 am

A person only has so much energy. If that energy (physical and mental) is used up by things other than sex, there is no desire for sex. So if you are able to help in any way that frees up some of her energy without draining too much of yours, things might improve.

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4615Married 67M
45 posts
7/27/2020 10:57 am

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