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hot, hot, hot when i was 28, i went to dinner at a very posh restaurant. as i entered, a couple was leaving and the man said to his wife, "now that's a beautiful woman". i remember feeling so flushed with a sense of myself as someone else. someone that i didn't really know. like looking at me from across a room. or seeing me while i walked past me. it was oddly exhilarating. last week i was at a political thing...tell me i wasn't hating that but i was with my older gentleman friend and we were having a good time eating mounds of shrimp. as we moved across the room to go out onto a balcony, a woman said to her husband, "isn't she an elegant woman?". my gentleman, squeezed my arm. her husband answered, "she's too fat". from the top of world to the curb in 5 seconds. my face flushed scarlet, i walked quickly outside. hands trembling, i lit a cigarette for myself and then leaned over to light my date's pipe. he looked at me... "it's important as we get older to develop selective hearing" i laughed. he continued, " and you're not fat. you are simply not anorexic" now i snorked. there is a large area between anorexic and what i am. filled with a joyful love of food and a total and profound anathema for any type of exercise other than sex. no, i am not fat...but zaftig...absolutely. curvy...yup. as we sat and smoked, we chatted a bit about when the idea of the perfect woman had changed from soft and cushy to lean and muscular. he said for most men, it hadn't, at least not in bed. perhaps in some way it has for show and tell, but when it comes down to a place to land, it's better to land on something soft than on something with edges. is there any woman who would not love this man? his driver dropped me off about midnight and we made a date for when my niece is in town. he'd like to take her to a private club - i've been there myself though years ago. i think it will be an interesting experience for her. grins. and she will no doubt enjoy the show. over 90 degrees today. hot, hot, hot. and i remember when i was. there is something about swinging down a street in the summer, wearing next to nothing and knowing that you are hot, hot, hot. smiles......... You cannot conceive the many without the one. |
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We ALL change in appearance as we get older,,and the heat and cold bothers us more.    ---------------------Dennis US ARMY (RETIRED) AND YOUR FRIEND I never mean to offend(blog or comment) anyone ,If I do contact me please. Please check out my blog Harley-Davidson Drive(19harley86)
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I figure that as long as I can lay concrete 10 hours per day, and keep doin' it 'til I drop dead, face-first into the pour... it really don't much matter how fat I am. (Quick-fact: fat don't seem to float up once it's submerged in concrete--ask them goombahs over to the docks, if ya don't believe me.)  I never was hot, though; just a really good meal ticket. Of course, nowadays... all the meal anyone's gettin' off that ticket is what they can shoot, gut and BBQ--on their own, I might add. (I learnt my lessons well... whilst I got old.) Solar...
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I wish more people understood that zaftig is a good thing.
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Honey, I'm fat, but you know what, I also know I'm hot. Still. Heck you know that song, "She doesn't know she's beautiful." Well, that was me when I was young. I didn't have much self-esteem back then because I grew up fat and after years of the boys making fun of me at recess, and me coming home crying every day, the scars were there. After I lost all the weight, physically I was very hot...I had curves in all the right places and I was thin...I actually wore a size 8 then. It took years and years to get to where I am today...fatter now because of menopause, but hotter than I ever was. No, not physically, but inside I know I'm better than I ever was and that's good enough for me to show it on the outside. Yeah, I was a hottie when I was young...damn I was good-lookin' then (there's a real picture of me buried in my blog when I was in the Marines) I didn't know I was beautiful then. Now I have more ASSets and FACEts...lol, and a hell of a lot more attitude. If no one else thinks it, I KNOW I'm hot because I know all the hot stuff inside my head. And that's where it matters most of all. It's funny, but now I know I'm beautiful. Namaste my friend
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I go back and forth between size 12 and 14- the size of the 'average' American woman. Am I fat? I don't think so, but the fashion industry probably would. I don't get it. I have an hourglass shape: large breasts, a waist that's almost 10 inches narrower, and wide hips. I wouldn't have it any other way. Yeah, I'd like to weigh a bit less and be firmer in spots, but I wouldn't trade my body shape for a muscular one if it meant losing my curves. Curves are feminine. I guess skinny makes clothes hang on the frame better, but soft rounded curves are femininity personified, at least for me.  Elevate me... 
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Hippie writes... "I guess skinny makes clothes hang on the frame better..." Ever seen an off-the-rack suit on some muscular stud? Yeah, that really works--eh? Ain't even no designer-wear that'll fit average peeps. That's why God invented tailors: they're trained to... do a body good.  Solar...
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I have always found men who looked at a beautiful woman and only saw fat, well, they tend to be kind of mean. Like it's easier to smash someone than face their own short comings. There is a very rich successful man who pursued me for years but could never take that final step because I was fat. His wife was a twig, all the women he dated were twigs but he loved fat women. That was not acceptable in his white-bread world so nothing ever came of it. Sadly, his loss.
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I remember those days too! I think curves, a great smile, kindness, and intelligence work for older men. Younger men want the eye candy. Never ignore those who care for you you will have lost diamonds while you were collecting stones
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oui-oui writes: "...for those that can afford a tailor" Anyone that concerned, over how clothes hang on their frame, will figure out how to afford a tailor; and if they just can't quite come up with the moolah, and they're still that concerned... they'll figure out how to lose weight. Where there's a will, there's a weigh. Solar... BTW: I amuse the freakin' hell outta myself.
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"The Lord prefers common-looking people. That is why he makes so many of them." ~ Abraham Lincoln Lincoln was always criticized by the newspaper pundits of the day for his "common-looking" appearance, his "ugly" face and his "gangly and awkward" frame. I love how the self-depricating Lincoln responded in good humor to his detractors!
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As I was walking back to a parking ramp after a concert the other week, a pedi-cab driver rolled by and called out, "Hey sexy lady!" He was probably just trolling for business, but it tickled me anyway. Gotta take those moments!   
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i know i'm beautiful........but i'm not hothothot. except when i flash, snork You are too much. And I bet that you're not only elegant, but hot and elegant to boot! Age cannot wither her, nor custom stale Her infinite variety. Other women cloy The appetites they feed, but she makes hungry Where most she satisfies. For vilest things Become themselves in her, that the holy priests Bless her when she is riggish. ~~ from Antony & Cleopatra
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I'm po' and I'm laughin'. Solar...
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7/16/2012 1:30 pm |
Yes, I know you're beautiful and I've never laid eyes on you.
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