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Other comments 12 Most of this is nonsense. So much so I quit reading. Let's look at a few by number: 1. Nothing is mentioned her calling him. What if, in their parting words, she said, "I'll call you", and so he's waiting for that call? This is a stupid premise. Similarly, what if work just had a major breakdown, or similar, and everybody's doing over-time (some companies operate in this mode all the time, been there done that) and he is just too busy, even though he's thinking of her constantly? Yes, there are people that just walk away (women on here do it 90% of the time, in my experience, but many are scammers, so I don't judge). But it isn't a "male" trait. One call solves this fabricated dilemma. 2. If a woman is more concerned about being impressed, that just being with him, maybe he is making the point he doesn't want the distractions other places may entail. Maybe he doesn't want a 'gold-digger'. I knew a very pretty woman in the Navy. She started hinting to me she might be interested. But just a quick conversation with one guy put an end to that. She always demanded more and more expensive restaurants, etc. And she switched boyfriends often. It appears I was the only one that said no to her. So, ladies, if you want expensive, offer to pay the bill, or be more involved in the planning of the date. Or best yet, concentrate on the person you are with, not where you're going. 3. Same premise as 1. People have busy lives nowadays. Making blanket statements like this is just bigotry towards men. If a man spends a lot of time at work, it is for a reason. It is simple to find out whether he is "stalling" or truly busy. In some situations you can ask if you can swing by his work or house to drop something off, like info on the next date you are hoping for or planning. To make statements like this, assumes that something untoward is going on. Again, this is just bigotry against men, when superficial details such as these are spewed out. 4. This one actually makes a little sense. But it is a two-way street. In my experience, women are far more likely to be talking on the phone during a date, than men. I've been in many a restaurant with women answering their phones. Men do too, but not as much. But if they do, they are usually on it the entire time. Most of those that I recall appeared to be married, and I felt sorry for the wife. 5. If his computer and phone aren't locked up, some scammer is sure to get into them at some point, and it may expose your phone number publically as well. If his phone *isn't* locked up like Fort Knox, stay away from him and don't give him your phone number, unless you want to see it published on the world wide web. Etc. The fact is, this whole thing isn't chock-full of common sense. Some that follow appear to be blatant, and obvious, but I didn't read past this point. Yes, there are lots of men that are cads. I've heard them talking that they only will stay with any woman for 4 years, so they never end up in a common law marriage. So, at the four year mark, they get rid of their "girlfriend" of the past four year. This is evil behaviour. If you are dating a guy, and his last relationship lasted only 4 years, you might want to look into why. Common sense is much more important than a list of "reasons" that may not even apply For example, any guy in or near his 30's, should been able to find a wife by then. (There are exceptions to this. Total abstinence, for example.) But, it doesn't take much to find out, if he's the slightest bit honest, why he hasn't married. Usually, he can get what he wants without getting married. No marriage, no messy divorce. He gets to keep all his money. No support payments. Many men see this as a way of life. Don't "put out" for these creeps. Women who do are the ones that help create them. And if he asks for nude photos? Guess what. No Gentleman would ever do that!  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 11 If he's not interested, it's best to find out early. If he doesn't call, or calls someone else, it's obvious you're not on his mind like you should be. If he talks all about himself, but never about you and he doesn't put any thought into your dates, he just doesn't care. Maybe he seems great but he has a million secrets and he straight up says he doesn't want a relationship, he is flat out telling you he is not interested. All these tips and more suggest he doesn't take you seriously and it's time to move on. A fun loving filly like you deserves a man who can't take his eyes off you. Use these tips, get out and meet a real man goodbuddy781
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Other comments 10 You are paying for everything. Sure he likes a good movie with you and is up for a nice dinner, but you are the one paying. You are going broke trying to keep a guy who can't open his wallet for you once in awhile. This guy is living it up on your dime and not offering anything in return. A real man doesn't need a sugar mama.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 9 He talks about your friends too much. He has met a few of your friends and he makes it known how attractive or fun they are. He asks which ones are single and seems unconcerned that his interest is hurting your feelings. Clearly, he isn't your number one fan and he should be  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 8 He disappears. He disappears for long periods of time, blocks you on facebook, avoids places you hang out. He clearly is not interested. If he didn't give you a reason for this sudden disappearance, he obviously doesn't care about your feelings. Let houdini do his disappearing act and find someone of substance.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 7 He never invites you to his place or never goes to yours. A guy who likes you will be willing to go anywhere to be with you. Even if this means it takes a little longer to get to work in the morning, he'll do it because he likes you. However, If he never wants to take you to his place, consider he doesn't want you to know where he lives or maybe just doesn't want you to get too comfortable at his place. A player won't want just any woman dropping by his place, especially if he is seeing multiple ladies.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 6 He tells you he doesn't want a relationship. So many women brush off this statement. If he tells you he doesn't want a relationship, what he means is, he doesn't want a relationship with you. When a man finds someone he connects with, nothing will stop him from being with that person. Find a man who has no qualms about making you his girlfriend instead of playing the waiting game with Mr. wishy washy.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 5 He's secertive. His phone and computer are locked up like fort knox. He freaks when you go near his phone or glance at his computer screen. He's obviously hiding something. It doesn't really matter what he is hiding, just that he isn't being honest with you. If a guy is hiding something, it can't be anything good. Trust is the most essential part of any relationship. If you can't trust him, make it clear you just aren't into untrustworthy guys and move on. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 4 He is looking for someone else. He contacts his ex girlfriends, messages other girls when you are on a date, has coffee with girls he just met. Long story short, men have friends who are girls, but if they are interested in one girl they won't jeopardize that realtionship by hanging out with randoms. Ditch this flirty philanderer and find a man who would rather spend time with you.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 3 He is all talk. When you're together he talks about all the great places you could go together. He may even mention you meeting his family. Unfortunately, his family is always out of town and he is too busy with work to take you anywhere. It can even be as small as him saying he will call you at 8:00 and not bothering until 11:00, if he calls at all. Face it, you aren't his priority. Drop this big talker and look for a man of action  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 2 Your dates are lame. He takes you to the same restaurant every time or just wants to watch a movie on the couch and feel you up. If his dates show no hint of planning, then he obviously doesn't care about impressing you. When a man is attracted to a woman he wants to impress her. If your dates are noticably unimpressive, that's a hint he doesn't feel the need to please you. Toss this lame larry to the curb.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 1 He doesn't call You have had a date and all seemed to go well. Trouble is, he didn't call. You are constantly checking your cell but there are no missed calls, no unnoticed texts. If he hasn't called, chances are he isn't thinking about you. Don't waste your time thinking about him. goodbuddy781
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Finding the right man can be difficult and the world of dating can be a confusing and competitive play ground. Sometimes it's hard to tell what a man is thinking. Getting your hopes up after a few dates can lead to a crushing disappointment later. So, what does he really think about you? Don't waste your time waiting on a guy who is just stringing you along. Here are 10 tips to help you see if a guy is not taking your seriously goodbuddy781
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Other comments 7 Lust dies but love is forever. 50-50% ---------------- OH BOY! this relationship stuff seems complicated.are you saying to much of a good thing can be bad?  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 6 relationships are hard work, if you want it to last. sex is important, but should not be the only thing on one's mind. i like a combination of both, great sex, and intimacy.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 5 sex is the very important ..no doubt . But faith is the very very important in every relation  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 4 I've not got a issue in just having a clean s*xual lifestyle i just take it when people ask for it  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 3 I think if you really love someone you respect them and what ever they want ..You and that partner work it out together..Love and trust is important...I do know that s*x is a good thing when two people act on it and people abuse it too...Like that is the only thing they want from me or they are using me to get what they want and then they leave me for someone else and get the same thing from them...Usually people wait till they are married..  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 2 I think sex is usually the driving force but if you have nothing in common apart from that things will get strained and the relationship will cool. As a women I feel I have to tempt my lover in all sorts of ways but we would have to have similar outlooks on life.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 1 OK, Sex is definitely the thing we all need , it's something that we share with someone that cares about you? goodbuddy781
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If a couple has a great sex life but other aspects of the relationship are lacking, it probably won't last. If you are concerned that your relationship is based on sex-only, you will want to look at your relationship honestly and objectively. Learn to recognize the signs that indicate whether a relationship is based more on lust than love goodbuddy781
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Other comments 5 If he's having a great time and I'm having a great time, then I see no reason to cut it off after approx 30 mins. If a date did that to me (and I'd like to hear the excuse for bailing if he's having a good time), then I can guarantee that there'd be no second date. Just m.o. I could write a lot more on the issue of overanalyzing things or guidance for the socially inept, but I'd rather hear from people who have tried this advice and came out successfully at the end  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 4 Your advice works well for people who live near each other, but for people like me trying to find their soulmate on a different continent, should we reach the point of purchasing a plane ticket to meet the one we think is our soulmate, we're pretty much in a position where we think we've found him, so there is no 30-minute first date for us; hopefully our "first date" will last a lifetime.. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 3 Why time a date if things aren't going well there's a way out after making excuses, if its going well why not go with the flow? goodbuddy781
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Other comments 2 I don't know about the author's experience with dating, but in general I believe that people are exchanging emails, or chat or do some Skyping before they meet eyeball to eyeball. In that way they already know each other to a certain extent, and with that comes the knowledge of preferences, needs and so on. To me this article sounds more like a description of a second date after a speed dating where the two have never met before. Or maybe they met on a dating site and decided to meet the same afternoon. If so, you have to live somewhere near by, and that is not always how it is, just like one of the comments read above. And expensive? If it just a meeting, it is a question of a cup of coffee and a chat, and that doesn't cost much. If it, however, is a question of first physical meeting after one has come to know each other, money shouldn't really be an object. And if we like each other, why should we NOT spend time together? To me, the whole article sounds a bit strange.  goodbuddy781
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