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give advice If you have time give your time for alone people . If you can give good advice give the people . Then check the results ? What is your opinion my mate of Black Flirting. goodbuddy781 |
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Other comments 6 The greatest relationships do not just magically "happen." Whenever you find yourself wanting to turn away from your partner, that's when you're going to need to turn towards them. If something they've said has hurt you, don't keep that inside. Instead, let your partner know your feelings so the two of you can work on resolving the problem. Otherwise, the temptation will be there for you to look elsewhere to get your needs met, and that's how you wound up having problems in the first place. No matter what it takes, always put your partner first and do whatever it takes to keep the lines of communication open at all times  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 5 Rediscover who your partner is. You need to take a good look at your partner and understand just how important they are in your life. Can you imagine yourself without them? If you can't, you need to make sure that you keep reminding yourself that they are integral to your happiness and you want them more than anything in the world.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 4 Find out what the emotional affair was giving you that you were not getting with your partner -- and fix it. If you went outside the relationship to get those needs fulfilled, you and your partner need to sit down and find ways to get your needs met, as well as your partner's needs met  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 3 But is this always best? Confessing may help to relieve some of your guilt. But will things between you and your partner ever be the same? How serious will your partner take this? Will your partner ever be able to trust you again? What will happen if you don't tell your partner and they find out later? Are you sure the affair is over and you want to stay in your current relationship? These are things to consider when deciding whether to tell your partner what has been going on. Each couple is different. Only you can decide what is best to do  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 2 Telling your partner. Some would advise you to tell your partner about the emotional affair and to take full ownership of it. This part is going to be hard because you're going to have to let down all your walls and all your barriers and you're going to have to be completely vulnerable. You need to tell your partner what happened, why it happened, and you need to do everything in your power to make sure your partner understands this will never happen again.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 1 It needs to stop. The person you're having the emotional affair with needs to be told that it's over... period. You need to make this totally clear to them, and there needs to be no hesitation or any chance that things might change. They need (and you need) to understand that whatever you had is now gone  goodbuddy781
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today's technology, it is easier than ever to find yourself caught up in an emotional affair. You can go online and achieve a connection with someone other than your partner or you can text message throughout the day with a person that you're not having physical intimacy with. Don't kid yourself... you are having an emotional affair. Before you try to justify whatever you're doing, you need to understand one important fact: your emotional affair, while not physical, is every bit as damaging as a full-blown between-the-sheets affair. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 3 been through a lot over the years. It's hard for me to trust people. I'm working on that. I like affection, getting it and giving it. l. I need physical and emotional reassurance of your feelings for me. It sounds a little clingy, but I think most men are this way, they just don't/won't admit it. I get attached to people not so easy. Doesn't necessarily have to be a "super sexy". I just have a lot of love in my heart, and once I'm your lover, I'm your true lover. The only way we'll part, is if you leave or give me NO choice but to walk away from you. I like to laugh and make people laugh. I can be a bit moody at times, but what man isn't like that?!!  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 2 Share Each Other's Religious Customs and Practices Good relationships are built on compromise. Never is that as important as it is with the interfaith couple. You can learn to compromise and appreciate each other's upbringing by attending religious services for both religions, observing each other's religious holidays and learning what you can about your partner's belief system. The most important aspect of this compromise, however, is that you do it together. Observing your religion on your own and leaving your significant other to observe his or her beliefs alone will serve no purpose but to drive a wedge between the two of you. By compromising, you can learn to appreciate the beauty of your loved one's religious beliefs and practices just as he or she will learn to value yours. If you and your partner share an interfaith relationship, it can be tumultuous and stressful or a fantastic learning experience for both of you. As long as you allow yourself to see the person inside rather than the religion, you can learn to compromise while appreciating the new ideas your loved one brings to the relationship--making your bond to each other even stronger. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 1 Trust Your Own Judgment If asked, you could probably rattle off a plethora of reasons why you love your partner and why the two of you are simply perfect for one another. Unfortunately, your friends and family members may not view your relationship the same way. If your loved ones share the same religious background that you do, they are likely to experience some measure of religious bias against your partner. In extreme cases, this could result in your loved ones deliberately attempting to sabotage what you've worked so hard to build. In situations like these, its crucial to trust your own judgment. Over time, the well-meaning advice of friends, family members and religious leaders can lead you to see fault in your partner where no fault exists--poisoning your relationship. Should the situation cause you intense emotional stress, you may wish to temporarily distance yourself from your loved ones to maintain your psychological health and your relationship goodbuddy781
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Falling in love with someone who adheres to a different religion doesn't mean that either you or your partner has to give up your own spiritual beliefs and religious associations. With the right outlook, you can make an interfaith relationship work no matter how different your views may be from the views of the one you love goodbuddy781
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Other comments 7 Life is much, much larger than love. Before you think about falling in love, think about building a life that you love. Work on your self-esteem. Do things that you are passionate about. Climb a mountain, run a marathon, take a trip to a new city by yourself. Allow yourself to become a complete person before you buy into love as the Holy Grail. It isn't. Be with someone who falls in love with you for who you are and what you are doing with your life. Love is amazing, wonderful and truly beautiful. But life is about more than just love. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 6 Think about it like this - if the person you are with wasn't your lover, but just a good friend, would you still accept this kind of behavior? More often than not, the answer is no. Considering this, if we want our lovers to also be our best friends, the same rules should apply to them. You don't need to tolerate abusive behavior from someone just because you are in a relationship with them.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 5 For example, you should always ask what it is you are sacrificing, and how important is it truly that you perform this sacrifice. If you are blindly forgoing your own ambitions, your self-esteem, your boundaries and your mission just because you want to stay with another person, it isn't exactly the most loving thing to do. Being in love doesn't mean accepting bad behavior or being infinitely tolerant. Engaging in this kind of 'sacrifice' all the time builds resentment, and that is the enemy of your relationship.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 4 It's not necessary to constantly sacrifice yourself in the name of love. One of the more popularly touted characteristics of being in love is the willingness to sacrifice yourself. The ability to burn everything in your life at the altar of your relationship is hailed as noble and wonderful. While the fundamental thought of being able to think about another person's happiness above your own is great, it shouldn't be accepted at face value. We need to think outside ourselves, and most definitely, it is a big part of being in love. But let's dig a little deeper.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 3 Being in love doesn't automatically fix your issues. Look, if you're someone who has a lot of emotional turmoil in their lives, or you date someone who does, you can't expect love to magically erase the slate. Guess what, if you are a jealous person by nature, you will remain a jealous person in your relationship. Ridding yourself of your emotional baggage is a process that is independent of love and dating. You need to work on your problems on your own. You can't just expect to meet a pretty girl, start dating her, and suddenly turn into Mr. Right overnight. It's not the most obvious thing to consider, but even a bad relationship can be really addictive. You can get caught up in the roller-coaster of emotions, of constant fighting and making up, of hurling abuses at each other one day and then professing your undying love the next. A lot of people stay in bad relationships because they prefer it over feeling numb. Unless you are a stable person outside your relationship, you can't be a stable person in it.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 2 If you were to enter into a relationship with someone like this, how likely would it be to succeed even if you were totally in love? When you are dissecting the relationship six months later after the inevitable disastrous breakup, you might be focusing on what you could've said and done differently. But this is a futile endeavor since the relationship was doomed to fail from the beginning. When you want to date someone or enter into a committed relationship with them, you need to listen to your mind as well as your heart. You need to see if they are truly right for you and if being around them really makes you happy. If you're constantly at war, no love song can save your relationship.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 1 Being in love and being compatible with each other are two completely different things. Read that sentence again. If it confuses you, it probably means that like the rest of us, you've come to believe those two things as interchangeable. Thousands of romance novels and movies have convinced us that against all odds, love will find a way. But reality doesn't support this statement. Being compatible with each other and being in love with each other are two scenarios that require a completely different set of criteria to exist. We've all seen dozens of abusive relationships where people who are supposed to be in love constantly fight and even physically hurt each other. What is going on here? You could, at any given point in your life, fall in love with someone who has a worldview and a belief system that is completely in opposition to yours. You might want to travel, while they might want to put down roots and start a family. They might think being vegan is the path God wants you to walk, and you might think being vegan is a waste of time. goodbuddy781
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Strong words that are, sadly, completely misguided and unrealistic. As a culture, we've come to accept love as being almost deity-like. We tout it as the cure for all problems, the solution to all your troubles, the only thing you should ever hope to achieve in life. When we take these ridiculous expectations into our relationships, we are often disillusioned. We blame our partners for not being good enough or not loving us enough. We blame the universe for not aligning the stars to send the perfect person into our lives. We blame each other for being shallow and egocentric and selfish. But we forget that love isn't the ultimate solution. Being in love is great, but it's not the only thing you need in life. Let's look at a few things that we overlook about love and being in love goodbuddy781
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To make sure you are not entirely reliant on luck, take a few steps to put out the right positive vibes and to attract your ideal partner. It's good practice to write down goals on paper. Attracting an ideal dating partner is no different. Visualize how your ideal partner looks and acts. Stimulate your mind with positive energy vibes. It's much easier to attract what you desire if you can create a clear picture in your mind. Write down the most desirable traits you seek and why you admire them. Giving meaning to the specific traits you desire triggers your subconscious to understand where you are coming from. To comprehend why you are looking for something gives meaning and significance. Your actions will hopefully reflect it too. Also write down the ideal and most likely places that you may encounter your potential partner, specific venues they may visit. Consider various circumstances where their passions may lead them. Despite whatever negative experiences you encountered in the past, always try and learn a little about yourself regardless of the pain. It's easy to focus on the negative things that went wrong in past relationships while overlooking the good positive areas. Reflect on what factors turned out well and contemplate how you would react if the same negative scenarios came up again in the future. By continuously analyzing your past, you can avoid repeating the same mistakes over and over like so many tend to do. Don't overburden yourself with past baggage. Things happen for a reason. Learn the lesson and move on with a clean slate. Try not to harbor ill-feelings towards your past ex's. Just realize that some pain and sacrifice are necessary on the journey of finding your life's true love. In everything you do, enjoy yourself, give out positive vibes that attract people to you, make others laugh and feel good. Develop a passion for your career and surround yourself with enthusiastic and positive people. Before long you will attract the right partner. You possess the power to attract someone that can change your life. goodbuddy781
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Mutually beneficial relationships enhance the quality of one's life. Relationships are give and take. It may sound cliché, but many people enter relationships with the delusion that they will find a perfect mate. If you are seeking perfection, you may want to remain single and by yourself, because that's one way to assure it. Relationships present a perfect opportunity to grow and enrich someone else's life provided that person is sincere and truly deserves it. You need to always go in with your eyes wide open. Don't allow yourself to be blinded by love, then become trapped in a relationship that's not healthy or secure. Patience is crucial. There's no need to fall in love overnight, you're not in high school anymore. The person is not going to turn into a pumpkin at midnight. Take the time to properly nurture and grow your romance. Develop some patience to honestly develop a friendship with your potential partner, truly seek their best interests at heart. goodbuddy781
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Take note of her body orientation but also be aware of her smile. Research shows that people who are attracted to one another smile when they're communicating. Whether in person or over the phone, if she has romance on her mind, she will have a smile on her face. In addition, her smile may linger longer than necessary. It's a sign of interest if her smile continues during pauses in the conversation or long after the conversation has ended. With her body facing you and a smile on her face, pay attention to her eyes. Does she blink rapidly? Winking or 'batting' of the eyes, as well as an increase in pupil size, are signs that she's attracted to you. Also be aware that intense eye contact shows that she's confident in her feelings and not afraid to let you know goodbuddy781
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When you enter the room, notice where she stands in relation to you. Much like placing her hands in your direction, the experts in body language say that someone who's interested in you will most likely orient their body towards you. Even if you're there to grab a cup of coffee and see her with friends across the room, she will probably turn to face you, acknowledging your presence, if she's interested in a more personal relationship. goodbuddy781
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Even if your love interest is too shy to stand close, she may be showing her interest in another way. If you're sitting together, notice which way her fingers and hands are placed. It may appear natural, but we tend to place our hands towards the object of our affection. goodbuddy781
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Body language experts have researched how our bodies respond to different emotions. Studies have discovered what it means when she crosses her arms over her chest, or her eyes linger over your shoulder. What is the body language of your loved one saying to you? Learn to interpret the body language of your love interest. Researchers of non-verbal communication tell us that up to 50% of our communication is done through non-verbal means. (The other half comes through in the tone of our voice as well as the actual words we use.) So, it's important to know what every blink and smile means for your love life goodbuddy781
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