Would you ever?
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Posted:Aug 28, 2016 1:38 pm
Last Updated:Oct 31, 2016 8:46 pm
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Would you ever deliberately set something up so your significant other gets hit on or is flirted with?
I know my Mrs has a hard time with compliments and she has heard it from me for so long I think she doesn't believe it anymore. She confesses to having self-confidence issues where she doesn't feel comfortable with herself.
I know she is beautiful, I wish I could show her face. I think you would agree. She to me is such a hot lady that I can't get her out if my head some days. But she doesn't seem to let it sink in.
If your SO had confidence issues would you arrange as your little secret for them to be flirted with? I think she would be elated to have either a man or a woman say how pretty or how great she looked that particular day.
Could you do you it, or would you do it?
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Fantasies!!!
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Posted:Aug 23, 2016 2:14 pm
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2016 12:54 pm
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We all have them. Some of us embrace them as part of who we are and our sexuality. While some hide them or are afraid to embrace them.
Do you share your fantasies with your closest friends or your lover? Are they similar? Has your partner made an effort to make them a reality for you?
I have a long list of them. Some have taken me a long to embrace and realize they make up a part of me. They are a part of who I am. Many of them involve my wife. I have recently started sharing some of these and soon I will put them all out in the open. I want to help her embrace her fantasies and help he take them as real as she will allow.
For a long time she denies that she has then. But let's face it. Women have them just as often and in many cases more often then men. She is slowly, ever so slowly opening up and I love it! I love seeing her sheepish smile, and devilish look when she knows I know.
What do you fantasize about? Does your partner help you realize them? Or are you or your partner afraid of what lies beneath?
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Dinner and a show
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Posted:Aug 21, 2016 8:41 am
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2019 1:50 pm
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Friday night was pretty awesome.
We went out for dinner for our anniversary. The Mrs. got dresses in a most sexy black mini dress. A mini dress that barely covered her sexy round ass. The best part is that she wasn't wearing any panties under it. To say she had a lot of eyes on her was an understatement. Afterwards I asked if she liked dressing sexy like that and have guys look at her. She very sheepishly said yes she did.
Afterwards dessert was supposed to be some risky public sex in the park fucking over a picnic table. But it got a little too cold. But she was flashing me, as well as anyone else who managed to sneak a peek of her bare pussy under the table.
Needless to say there was a lot of fucking going on when we got back home.
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Has it been a month already?
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Posted:Aug 18, 2016 4:56 pm
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2016 3:47 pm
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Wow time flies doesn't it?
It's already August 18th and a lot has happened since that last post. Holidays, a quick trip, and a lot of fucking!
It's our 19th Anniversary this week and tomorrow we have dinner reservations for a nice evening out. Dessert should be good as we have plans for sex in the park after.
Earlier this summer we fucked out in the open in our own backyard. Nothing like fucking g your wife doggy style in the middle of the yard where anyone can see. It was dark mind you but we have no fence, and depending on where you were walking on the street you could have easily watched us.
This latest bout of risky public sex is our compromise to the sex club or party visit. She's still a little too scared to go. Which is OK. I know in time she will warm up to the idea of us having sex with an audience. I for one would love for it to happen and lead to our first group sex action.
Patience and communication are key. I have to keep reminding myself of that.
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I just sent this article to the Mrs. Its a very good article.
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Posted:Jul 15, 2016 6:07 pm
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2019 1:51 pm
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I found this article earlier today and found it to be very good. Have you ever read it?
The Hotwife Phenomenon - The New Threesome
By: Dr. Sherry Lee, Ph. D.
From: Psychology Today
(Dr. Lee has lectured and published in the area of analytical psychology, and she developed one of the first electronic systems for the quantitative analysis human behavior. She started her counseling work by leading gestalt therapy groups. Apart from this, her several decades of professional experience has been largely limited to urban, affluent, female subjects.)
What Has Spurred the whole Hotwife Phenomenon?
Although motivations for the Hotwife phenomenon actually cover a wide spectrum, here we’ll cover a few of the most common.
First let’s get this out of the way. The Menage a’ Trois is out, it’s yesterday’s news, and most women are glad to see it go. Why? Because for at least the last hundred years or so we women have had to indulge this male fantasy (usually with our best girlfriends as the second woman) and frankly guys, we’ve had enough. No, we don’t really like to perform oral sex on our best friends just because you think it’s hot, sorry. We’re not lesbians and even though it looks like we like it in every porno you’ve ever seen, the last thing that turns us on is watching you, our boyfriends/husbands screw another woman right in front of us. We just aren’t wired to like that. It’s biologically programed into us not to like seeing our mates mating with other females.
On the other hand, we women know that a lot of you men out there DO like the idea of watching us, your girlfriends and wives, get it on with another male while you either watch or better still, join in. Surprised? You shouldn’t be.
Polls show that more and more women, especially those in their late thirties and older, who are passed or passing their bearing years, say that the threesome they do find extremely exciting is the kind of threesome so called “Hot Wives” are having and that’s the MFM or Male-Female-Male threesome.
These women are hitting their sexual prime during their late thirties and early forties and many of them like getting attention from younger males. These women don’t want to cheat on the men they love, they want to have their boyfriends and husbands to let them be the sexual creatures at the peak of their sexual powers that the media has falsely convinced men happens when women are in their twenties. It’s just not true. While many males my be suffering from a drop in their testosterone levels in their forties and feel like their sexual peak is a distant memory, the women in their lives are just getting warmed up, maybe even hot!
What is a Cuckold?
A husband who is a cuckold is aware of his spouse’s activity, most likely actively encouraging it and derives sexual pleasure from it. Biologist Robin Baker speculates in his book “Sperm Wars” that the excitement and stimulation of the cuckolding fetish emerges from the biology of sexuality and the effects of sexual arousal on the brain. Baker believes that when a man thinks that his female mate may have been sexual with another man, the man is prompted by biological urges to copulate with the female in an effort to “compete” with the other man’s sperm. While this is just a theory it may help explain the desire by many men to have their wives sleep with other men.
He may value the relationship and not want her to jeopardize things because of the deceit and secrecy that normally accompany affairs. In short, he wants to know about and approve any extramarital sex, and even have some control over it. The cuckold husband wants his wife’s sexual encounters with men to be for sex only, with no marriage-threatening emotional entanglements.
The mass media often cast beautiful and desirable women as both sexy and prone to sexual liaisons. Whereas this type of woman used to be considered a “fallen woman” or even a “,” in some minds she now seems to represent an enticing new standard.
Some women used to brag about how they could avoid marital sex, and despite the views of some radical feminists, such women are now suspected as being man-haters, latent lesbians, or simply having personal problems. Now, many women find a certain excitement in being viewed as sexually liberated. For some, especially some older women, there may be a certain ego gratification in still being viewed as being sexually desirable — even discretely promiscuous. While holding to the security of her primary relationship, she may revel in experiencing sexual freedom.
At the same time, some cuckold husbands want their wives to appear ladylike on the surface (in public.). But, among the majority of these men, they want they wives to be known as “hot”, “sexy”, and “not hung up about sex,” or even “great lays.” Although this type of wife was once considered a threat to husbands — and it still is to most — the more psychologically secure males believe that a healthy and well-adjusted (and desirable) woman enjoys sex, and has the right to be just as open about it as men.
Also, the husbands involved often pride themselves in being secure enough to handle a hotwife. He may even brag to another man about how his wife loves sex and can’t get enough (which, not coincidentally, may be very much in contrast to the attitude of that man’s wife). Implicit in the comment is that the husband has no problem with this, and that, in fact, he thinks his wife is very “hot.” In most cases sex within a Hotwife marriage is just that. Hot. Women in the Hotwife lifestyle report having higher than average self esteem, they report far fewer incidences of infidelity on the part of their husbands, an above average libido, and overall feelings of being attractive, especially to younger males.
Many women realize that other women regularly enjoy “good sex,” and although many wives have grown ambivalent about sex within their marriages and are reluctant to try new things, these barriers frequently fall with the expectations of new sexual partners. With new men there appears to be unspoken desire to “not disappoint” and “to be good in bed.” Even though she may have started to have doubts about her sexual desirability, as a hotwife she will find that men are again interested in her. For some women this can constitute a kind of new “sexual awakening.”
This transformation can be quite disturbing for a husband who isn’t prepared to handle it. But for those men who have always thought that their wives were not only devoted to them but should be admired, even lusted after by other men, it is a dream come true. Contrary to the most commonly held belief that all cuckold husbands are by default the submissive type with a small penis inferiority complex, most of these men are actually extremely confident in their masculinity and their “manhood”. They also report having no desire to have sex with other women. Their hotwife is almost always the sole focus of all their sexual fantasy and activity. In my experience, this may be the only class of men who can actually be believed when reporting this.
In some circles a woman may wear a bold ankle bracelet on her right ankle to tell men “in the know” that she’s a hotwife. (At the same time, most women who wear ankle bracelets do so without realizing the possible significance.) Once seen as a hotwife, she may flirt with select men, making it clear that she’s available for sex.
Women As Sex Objects?
Many women feel that being a hotwife turns a woman into a sex object. This seems to be primarily based on the premise that enjoying sex is a masculine prerogative. However, more and more women are finding that this is not so.
Most women have lived their lives trying to act “like proper women” and shunning men “who have one thing on their minds.” Now, according to one woman, “I let guys know I like sex.”
Thus, she may soon get beyond, “what other people will think” and concentrate on the pleasures of the sexual experience — in particular, experiencing regular orgasms. This is often bolstered by the excitement that surrounds the culturally taboo aspects of a married women having sex with other men.
Usually it’s the Husband’s Idea
All of this notwithstanding, the cuckold husband/hotwife phenomena is typically the idea of the husband who not only knows about the high number of female affairs, but is even sexually excited by visualizing another man having sex with his wife.
According to one husband, “I had to really change my view about how a wife is supposed to be, especially with guys finding out she’s ‘available’ even though she’s married to me. But now I really get off on having a woman that guys think is hot and who they want to have sex with. Fact is, instead of being embarrassed or defensive, I brag about how she loves sex, and then I casually mention that this sure makes her a lot different than most wives. In a very good way.”
According to another husband, “…as far back as I can remember in our marriage, I’ve always been turned on and excited by the idea of encouraging her to let guys give her all the sexual attention she can handle. …She and I feel closer and more attracted to each other because of all the attention she gets from men. Especially the younger guys. They all think she is hot and they’re right! My wife feels that as long as we are together when she’s with another guy, everything is OK. It’s a huge turn on for both of us.”
From her husband’s perspective, he has long ago ridded himself of the “fallen woman baggage” that pervades most of our culture, the fact that his wife is pursued by men, makes herself available to men, and sometimes has sex with other men, introduces a bit of competition for her. This can strengthen the husband’s resolve to “treat her right” although most husbands with hot wives already have a sort of “wife worship” fetish you might call it. They tend to buy their wives pretty clothes, take them out, and tell them how attractive they think they are and make them feel that they are attractive to other men.
He may fantasize about a powerful (safe) man sexually awakening and dominating her, and forcing her to break free of sexual inhibitions. Some husbands know how exciting a new sexual partner and experience can be, and want to offer some other men this experience with their wives.
A husband may also fantasize about having a wife that is, to a degree, driven by both a physical and a psychological need for sex. Visualizing or seeing first-hand other men meeting this need in her —but only with his permission— may excite him.
The Woman’s Perspective
Women have a different perspective on being a hotwife, of course. According to one woman, “I’ve got a sense of freedom in enjoying the company of men and not being paranoid about a jealous husband, or even being worried about what people will think. If I want to have sex with a guy I find attractive, all I have to do is tell my husband and I have the freedom to do it. For me, having my husband there is a huge part of the turn on. Knowing it excites him makes it more exciting for me. Of course I’m excited that a younger, good looking guy wants me and thinks I’m hot, I’d be lying if I said I didn’t. But just sleeping with another guy without my husband feels more like cheating than a turn on. Some women go on dates without their husbands and a lot of husbands are OK with that. For me, I want my husband with me. I want him to see me being taken by another man. It’s really hot, for both of us.”
At the same time, the hotwife does not want jealousy or resentment to ruin her marriage or threaten the unusual freedom she enjoys, a freedom she knows that very few husbands would be willing to grant. Therefore, she needs to be careful to be totally open and honest to her husband about her lovers. This means that there will be no secret conversations or secret meetings with men. It may also mean that the husband may want to approve of the men she has sex with.
The cuckold husband may want his wife to announce her sexuality by wearing revealing clothes. For example, he may accompany her to a night spot in a distant city and have her dress in ultra-revealing clothes or tell her to go out without wearing any panties. This can serve to get them both used to the resulting male attention. Rather than being jealous, having a wife that is seen by other men as sexually “hot” may provide him with an ego boost. (Dare we suggest that for some men hot wives are replacing hot cars as a source of pride.) Thus, while the male and female motivations might be quite different in the cuckold husband-hotwife phenomena, the ultimate goal can be the same.
The husband will have to deal with meeting men who have had or want to have sex with his wife. To compensate for any suspected loss of his virility, the husband may remind others of his own previous sexual escapades. At the same time to prove his lack of jealousy, he may freely admit to men that his wife regularly enjoys sex with different men, and he may even subtly offer her to select men. According to one man, “I like to set things in motion like that just to see what happens.”
The Quintessential Issue
What may seem desirable for the husband or wife while under the influence of testosterone, libido or fantasy, may later seem like a huge mistake. The result may be regret and marital estrangement.
Clearly, the cuckold husband/hotwife idea is at odds with cultural conditioning and human tendencies toward jealousy and possessiveness. Although these traits may not be desirable, they are the norm and must be recognized. Even assuming that both partners are okay with going in this direction, most of society isn’t. With most people there is still a sigma associated with a promiscuous wife and a husband that lets his wife have extramarital sex. Most people who find out about this will respond negatively toward both partners.
This can be a problem in a work environment where “character” is a part of job performance and promotion considerations. (A common male chauvinistic attitude with roots in the “wife as the husband’s property” notion says that a husband should keep his wife “under control,” and if she has affairs she definitely isn’t “under control.”)
While many couples are able to keep their sexual activities private, they may live with the fear that they may be found out. At the same time, self-employed people who live in large urban areas, or people who work around like-minded individuals probably won’t have this concern.
All this being said, given the ever-increasing number of affairs, and the emerging attitudes about condoned affairs in countries such as Japan, one wonders if somewhere down the road to cultural enlightenment U.S. society won’t be ready to accept open relationships. We seem to be in the early stages of that now.
Although the transition will certainly be bumpy, if we are able to shift our emphasis to love and commitment to hold relationships together, rather than the refutable doctrines about sexual exclusivity which simply cater to jealousies and insecurities, it would not only eliminate much heartache, but it would remove many of the “justifications” for dissolving relationships and an ever increasing divorce rate.
So what did you think? I hope if you have not read it before that you found it informative.
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Home all alone tonight
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Posted:Jul 14, 2016 2:07 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2024 12:40 am
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What kind of trouble can I get into?
NOt sure what else is going on but this boy is horny and ready for the weekend.
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Such a bad repair man
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Posted:Jul 11, 2016 4:32 pm
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2019 1:55 pm
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Got a text from the Mrs this morning saying she has a flat and can't change it. So had to get it removed and replaced .
The guy shows up, changes the tire, and demands payment after. He says, " little lady how would you like to pay for that?"
To that she replies "Well, I don't have much, but why don't you come inside and I can think of something."
He follows her in, and as soon as he is in the door he is greeted by a nice round bare ass and shaves pussy bent over in the living room. "Is THIS what you had in mind?" she says?
Well if that's all you got, I guess it will have to do, he replies.
With that the repair guy pulls his pants off, to a rock hard cock and immediately plunges it into her sopping wet pussy that's bent over the couch. He fucked her hard, and steady for a very sweaty hour until he buried his load into her hot waiting cunt!
Afterwards she gets up, and walks to the bathroom cum dripping down her leg. "Thanks now I can make it to work." She says.
It was my pleasure, ha said and left.
Ok so the repair man was me and I fucked my wife after. But it sure made for one hell of a hot roleplay! She kinda surprised me with that one!
Now if only she will finish later by feeding me her cummy cunt later.
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Fucking fuck, fucking fuck fuck!
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Posted:Jul 8, 2016 8:31 pm
Last Updated:Oct 31, 2016 8:57 pm
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Just fuck!
I hate when amazing experiences slip right through your finger tips. Fuck it all anyway!
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That's a surprise
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Posted:Jul 1, 2016 9:30 pm
Last Updated:Oct 31, 2016 8:59 pm
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The Mrs just told me she wants me to fuck her in the middle of the back yard. Just out on a blanket out in the open. I will have to take advantage of that one. 69 on the lawn and tapping that ass!
Ahhh I think she's starting to come around. It's a baby step but I will take it.
Mmm pounding that pussy doggy style on the lawn. Ohhh yeah!
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Cock, too bad it's always attached to a guy
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Posted:Jul 1, 2016 10:33 am
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2016 7:46 pm
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I have to admit it. Looking at and seeing a big hard cock is nice to look at. The rest of it, nope not into that at all.
Having allowed myself to be honest with myself and open about the things that turn me on. I have to say a nice, big cock turns me on bit the rest of the body attached to it no thanks. I guess that's why I would be totally open to having sex with the Mrs and more than one guy in the room. The hot combination of hard cock and wet pussy is perfect.
I don't know if there are a lot of guys out there that would admit it openly but if the circumstances were right I would suck a big hard cock that just shared that pussy with me.
It's only been recently I could say something like that. Maybe my ideas of what sex is has transcended to a different level. Hopefully one day hers do as well.
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The sex last night was EPIC
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Posted:Jun 30, 2016 6:16 pm
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2019 1:57 pm
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It kinda had it all. Cock sucking, face sitting, squirting, creampie eating and a lot of pussy pounding!
3 orgasms before the fucking started. 2 more as she road me, one with a big squirt all over my cock! And another while sucking the cum out her well fucked and satisfied pussy.
That got me hard in record time and a second round of fucking my sexy little hot wife!
The best part? Telling me she loved it!
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