I don’t know how this works. I have read several blogs and I’m guessing you have have a gold membership do anything else. I want make sure this site is even worth it before I spend any on it. I’ve tried other sites and men either so desperate they’ll say anything or not at all what they think they are. I’ve been a ER nurse for the last 7 years. So my tolerance for bullshit is very low. I’ve read several blogs and so I know there are a few cool people on here. If any of you have any pointers for this site, let me know. Not looking for any kind of commitment. And if your married.... STAY AWAY! I don’t do drama of any kind and really don’t care that your wife hasn’t had sex with you in 5 years. Get a divorce and move on. Geeezzzzzus