Strange Feelings
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Posted:Jul 23, 2015 6:13 pm
Last Updated:Sep 10, 2015 12:15 pm
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Female here.
The boyfriend and I decided that since our search to find a couple was not going in the direction we wanted, we'd play separately. I've played with one gentleman twice, and he's played with one woman once. He did have some worries when I spent three hours at this gentleman's apartment, but we talked them through. Now, it's been more than three hours that he's been with his play date...and I'm a mess.
Am I being a hypocrite? Is this feeling of dread normal? Am I just not cut out for a lifestyle like this?
When I had my two play dates, my boyfriend waited patiently and horny. But now, I'm second guessing this. Can someone please tell me that this is normal for a newbie????
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A Query...
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Posted:Jul 5, 2015 7:32 am
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2015 3:58 pm
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We've been absent for some time, dealing with some personal issues, but now we're back, and more enthusiastic than ever!
But, we're not seeing many people in our area who want the same thing. So, it's bad to ask this, but are there any other websites like this that we can try? We're serious about swinging/swapping, but find that others aren't.
Any tips?
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Just A Thought...
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Posted:Apr 7, 2015 2:34 pm
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2015 7:29 am
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If someone decides not to pursue something with you, please respect it.
Don't get all butthurt because we aren't interested. Since she's new, she does get a lot of control in deciding what happens and what doesn't. We both will talk everything out, as a couple, and decide, as a couple, if we're going to pursue you or not. If we decide that we're not interested any longer, don't pull an ego blast and put us down to make yourselves feel better. We're all adults here, so why not act maturely about it?
So just a final reminder: if we decide that you are not what we're looking for, calling us ugly or stupid isn't making us feel bad, and it's rather immature of you. Accept it. Respect it. Move on. Find someone else. And if you can't, high school is the place for you, not here.
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She's New Here
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Posted:Apr 7, 2015 1:58 pm
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2015 7:27 am
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Female half here.
I'm new to this...idea...of letting someone else play with my boyfriend and I. It's an idea right now, but I hope it becomes reality soon.
We can post a hundred photos of us from different angles, or a hundred videos of me pleasing my man, but it won't make a difference. Will it?
I'm not even sure how this is supposed to work. Is it like dating? Because this feels like a dating site, and I'm used to those (well, not since I met him). But even though it feels like a dating site, there's no woo-ing.
Let me explain.
When you're on a dating site (I'm not talking about Tinder or Grindr or any of those swipe-and-message-instant apps, I'm talking Plenty of Fish & OkCupid), you make a move and send a message. There's usually some light and flirty banter, a few sexual innuendos and then you switch numbers after a few days, and agree to meet. You meet and the date usually goes horribly, so you vow you'll never see "HotNSexyGuy_4U" ever again (or "hotchick420" if you run that direction, and yes, I've encountered people with those exact usernames before). But if you're lucky, the date goes well and you agree to see each other again. Maybe it fizzles after a few dates. Maybe it doesn't. But that's what a dating site feels like, to me.
There's effort on a dating site. There's communication. Here, I feel like we're all inundated with messages and chats, so we let some of it slip.
If you're looking for someone to have sex with, there's gotta be some woo factor. There's gotta be some amount of communication, and it has to be equal.
Or is that naive? Am I just...too green? Too new? I feel like I stepped off a boat and landed in a sexually charged haven, so am I reading the site wrong?
Don't give me the, "you're new, calm down" speech or the "you have to give it time" lecture. Don't even preach the "you'll find the one(s)". Because that doesn't make me, a new girl exploring this idea, this lifestyle, with her boyfriend, feel any better about it.
When did we start treating our sex lives so blasé?
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