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Posted:May 18, 2019 9:22 pm
Last Updated:Oct 11, 2019 7:18 am
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Now I can't flirt back with people who flirt with me just coz I'm not Gold?
This site must be really doing badly for money!
Gosh ...
If you've flirted and I have not reciprocated - especially my buddies - now you know - this damn site just wants your money.
And NOPE you're not getting any from me!
Not for a site that gets hacked so bloody regularly.
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I gave up on coffee meets
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Posted:Feb 20, 2019 7:59 am
Last Updated:Mar 23, 2019 9:23 am
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because although I love myself a cup of good coffee or even that stuff they try to pass off as coffee, one cup of coffee is not getting you a hook up.
You see celibacy because of the lack of sex might make someone rather you know pliable to making a regretful decision to hook up.
I on the other hand am celibate BY CHOICE - very important words you need to comprehend.
It's sorta like me saying No in person - it means exactly that - NO!
There's no hidden agenda in my celibacy or lack of interest to copulate just because you bought me coffee 
Now before you get all riled up and call me some unchoice names, I'm no stuck of wannabe ... contrary, I am very aware that I'm no hot pick chick but rather flubbery and closely resembling the walrus - I even have the whiskers sans fish breath!
So boys when I say no or if I don't reply your meet up for coffee and let's see where it goes - am not insulting you but rather I'm just not offering myself to what usually follows when I say No - endless barrage of derogatory messages insulting me as a person.
Just think of it as me doing us both a favour - you don't get your ego bruised, I don't get called names I'm not not remotely resemble.
in the mean time happy hunting fellows - this old girl is very clear what she's doing with her life - some days I waste time here just for the giggles.
Love and Light
¬pho
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Gong Xi Fa Chai and Cupid's Day
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Posted:Feb 17, 2019 7:43 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 2:23 pm
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It feels like 2019 is on a full steam ahead hurtle forward
One moment we were like ooooo New Years ... now we're done welcoming the little oinker in the Lunar New Year.
Am putting a lot of hope that my Zodiac year will be good to me and my family.
I'm a '71 born piglet - it was the year of the Metal/Gold Oinker.
This year is the Earth element after a stretch of Fire - so things should be relatively calm.
It least I'm hoping for good things after terribly tumultuous times in the recent past. 2019 started off pretty good with family gatherings and it seems that's the tone of the year - many gatherings especially in my home and my kitchen is dishing out many dishes - mostly accidental experiments hahahaah but everyone is enjoying the food - so that's all good.
Food and family - 2 very Asian facets of life. And as someone of diverse Asian genetic mash up, I'm enjoying how much my heritage and history is making me more wholesome and better for those I love.
Cupid's Day came and went. As it has for many many years with nothing to get excited about from the aspect of flowers and chocolate and steamy date. But it has an interesting aspect from work perspective - one I am hoping happens, I'd really appreciate the opportunity to show my capabilities again.
I know another year and this self professed celibate is still here - what the hell is wrong with me you ask ... Nothing. But sometimes you find good laughs in the strangest of places and this site is pretty much that for me. My nightcap of sorts - log in see who I know, share a few giggles and then knock out since I'm way on the other side of the pond for most of you.
I'm good for a coffee and catch up chat - just don't buy me coffee expecting dirty dancing between the sheets - you'd be disappointed - me I'd still have had my coffee.
Yes Yes I've not changed much - still weird still quirky ... still honest.
Have a good one people Febs almost over ... I'm wrapping up the month with a night out catching Singaporean comedian Kumar's performance with a childhood friend.
Small joys and making memories. Stay safe sane and happy !
¬pho
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Gedangit
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Posted:Nov 10, 2018 7:01 am
Last Updated:Jan 5, 2019 5:50 am
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like seriously this site ... ok so I've had a pretty good run of free gold.
I don't log in for a week and bam its gone ....
With their crap security and hackings they actually think am gonna put my card details on here? Nuts no way.
So ya ... I mean I get it a lotta horny people in the world - but there's also people with jobs and family and REAL LIFE happening - been here yrs now and 1 measly week and it's gone ...
Thank you very much yo!
Moving right along
How's everyone doing?
Good I hope - be well stay safe and have fun
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Another unnecessary ulcer causer
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Posted:Jun 30, 2018 9:31 am
Last Updated:Jan 5, 2019 10:24 pm
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Evebelieves8 - shame on you the Aussies not gonna like this one being pinned on them.
Another classic case of someone with a rod up their arse coming out of the blue for no reason and spewing hate.
I was on cam today after a long time chatting happily with folks I know and this 'female' comes on in private and calls me
racist black
areshole (sp) liberal
not worth it
muslim cunt
And so after I take a few jibes at her inbred stupid, I ban the thing - I mean I get online and have a laugh ... I don't need to deal with someone who thinks hiding behind a keyboard and posting insults to someone they don't know is ok coz hell she's white and she's privileged .. well kiss my brown ass girl! I don't give a fuck!
So I think that's the end of that - and what she do - inbox me this little classic .. am guessing they want an equally irresponsible response but ya see this brown girl got class yo! And I ain't got time for stupid either.
Also FYSA neither black nor muslim but I do take offense for hating on people for the sake of hating on people. REALLY get a life!
Black Flirting is unlikely to do anything even if I complain and likely to remove this post coz my post is offensive not her picking a random stranger and hating on them.
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Happy Valentines
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Posted:Feb 14, 2018 5:14 am
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2018 8:03 am
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To be honest I really would not mind a long term relationship at this point in my life.
I've stood clear for a long time over that long ass divorce cause even though I wasn't the cheater I was splashed in court as if I was a nymphomaniac. The paternity of my daughters questioned ..a whole load of bullshit.
I promised myself if I ever let a man into my life again it was gonna be on my terms ... I'd had enough of some misadventures since the divorce that taught me sweet talkers will get into your pants and thereon it'll go downhill if you don't respect yourself.
So now my are grown teenagers with solid heads on their shoulders. They know they're always first in my life but they also realise once they head off to college am going to be alone most of the time.
It was my daughters who've encouraged me to find myself a good man. As much as I know there ARE good men out there .. I find the odds against me ..I seem to have a natural homing device attracting the most self centred chronicallypossessive and yet open game himself and worst from experience everything he says is what made him fall for me becomes exactly why he hates me and is suspicious. I don't hide my men friends coz they are exactly that - friends. I'm not in search of benefits, I'm in search of a kindred soul to explore the world.
So 6 months to 47, I highly doubt my single state will change coz I guess after you've gone through so many disappoints, the alarm bells become ultra sensitive .. and I rather walk away one less misadventure.
But there are those moments when I think wouldn't it be nice to have a man who accepts me with all my imperfections as I accept him and to be able to lugh and love and live and know we don't need rings andmarriage papers to be sincere and committed ... perhaps I'm idealistic in hoping that he is just around the corner waiting to bump into me. Tis the hopeful foolish heart.
Anyhows all ya folks out there Happy Valentines and if you're with someone you love for more than just the sex ... may you always be blessed.
Have a good one people.
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A small guide
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Posted:Feb 8, 2018 8:04 am
Last Updated:Dec 24, 2019 8:04 am
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On giving her oral she won't forget ...
Thought I'd share coz some of you forget its nerve endings you want to pleasure not pain.
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Happy New Year
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Posted:Dec 31, 2017 7:38 am
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2019 9:04 am
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Early wishes for everyone here
May 2018 bring you better things
May it be blessed and abundant in opportunities
May love happiness health be yours always
With love from the Phoenix.
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Another Year End ...
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Posted:Dec 26, 2017 6:57 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 2:23 pm
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and what have we to show for it?
For me personally the year pretty much was an extension of 2016.
I was still very much unemployed despite sending out applications by the 100s monthly - not even a 'thank you but we're unable to offer as we have no REAL opening - we're merely fishing for cheap labour'
That was the job market in the sandpit. Come May with literally every pipe dried up and the few friends who has helped with cash had already exhausted their spare emergency funds helping me - I told the , once the exams were over we had to leave - we were even going to not have a roof over our heads.
So that was the plan and we left and came home tail between my legs, all my hopes dreams and aspirations all dust now. One step taken with reservations has put me back financially nearly a decade in debt to banks and people.
Mid year home, got a job, daily wage, contract but something better than nothing. But my trials were far from over - lost my dad within a month of my return home. And I still feel like he died disappointed in me for the situation I found myself in. My dad was probably the one person who though he rarely showed or said it was proud of me for always finding a way out of my struggles and here I was home, penniless and my having been through so much.
It has been 5 months since dad passed away - the pain isn't any lesser, the guilt that I must have hurt and disappointed him so much still gnaws at me. I'm throwing myself into things to get opportunities to build back some sense of small measure success to settle my debts and set my off on their education journey.
I'm older, and still much on my own. I dare not put much hope in anyone I meet - ESPECIALLY if I find the interesting, coz I know, it's never reciprocated in the way I hope, for the other person it's always benefits and nothing more. And I will spend another New Year's eve at home with my and not think of that ending of When Harry Met Sally ... that's not written into my script I assure you.
Happy New Year all and may 2018 be as fulfilling s you believe it should be ... for me, I am just looking for a more permanent role, my to adapt to their new schools and make new friends, that good health is ours, and that we may make more memories to carry us through in the future..
My love and best wishes to everyone of you ...
God Bless
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Why thank you Jamdevil1
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Posted:Aug 25, 2017 9:40 pm
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2017 10:10 am
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This I got in response to my question "and the point you're trying to make with this conversation is?"
Go to hell Phoenix. You are so negative person and your stubbornly character will chase you out of social life. You said you are Christian and you don't represent at all and a shame to say you are Christian. Do you think you will find escape through this site for your dramatic nonsense mind disorientation ? 46 years old with two cannot get out of trauma of passed way father ! What values and moral will teach and bring up your with ? Good bye and you do not need to reply. Keep your rage for your self. That's the point I want to make from this conversation. God bless your righteous poeple Amen
Aaaah yes such an articulate 39 year old.
Now I have to decipher
1. How he gets to judge my faith and believes plus I was never Christian mascot material or claimed to be
2. Mind disorientation ... Freud and Jung ex-spurt I see
3. Chased out of social life ... hmmm but I enjoy my solo reclusive life ... I trouble no one ... but upset those who think nymphomania should be my go to for social acceptance
4. Stubbornly character ... well then I just opt to stand by my convictions if that's a character flaw .. am loving it
5. Values and morals I teach my is apparently questionable ..(because I miss my dad who recently passed away) .... but my are role models to many others
6. My rage ... me thinks he displayed that more than me.
Since he is righteous and he is sending me to Hell ... well then the world still spins on its axis unperturbed ... as I do with my choices and reasons.
Chuckling ... this site brings out the strangest characters. All in a Saturday chuckle.
Be blessed be happy everyone. You cant control others only yourself.
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It won't ever be the same
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Posted:Aug 15, 2017 9:48 am
Last Updated:Dec 26, 2017 7:01 am
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After 2yrs away
After all that shit in my life the last year I came home and within 32 days I lost my dad.
I don't think I will ever come to terms with how short time is when you watch someone losing their fight.
My first birthday without dad's corny jokes to wake me up ... my 45th year has been shit but I hope dad is wishing me from up above.
I miss you Pa ..
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Fuzzy Roosters
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Posted:Jul 19, 2017 10:24 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 2:23 pm
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Boys boys boys ... please do not send me your rooster pictures. They upset my sensitive eyes.
Especially so those roosters in some fuzzy squiggly crinkly nest ... TOTALLY DISGUSTING ... makes me wretch.
I have quite clearly said on my profile am NOT LOOKING ...and to be perfectly honest if I were looking I wouldn't decide on you based off your only prized possession - your dick. Some working brains focused on more pertinent things and not horny horny horny 24x7x365 might help but let's get real that's a rare find on here.
Don't get me wrong. I have no airs about myself. Am short brown and fat .... not your kinda girl anyways ... so save yourself the trouble and my eyes the trauma and keep those wanked off icky stuff on crinkly mess pictures away from me ... am just gonna block you.
Am sure you have appreciators but I am not one of them.
Have an awesome day ...
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