Follow-up...
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Posted:May 21, 2010 4:13 pm
Last Updated:May 28, 2024 7:10 am
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First, thanks for the comments from my last post.
Second, as a follow-up, do women have any preference for how much pubic hair a man has?
Is it better to be shaved, neatly trimmed, or au-natural? Does it matter at all?
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Pics of Dicks
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Posted:May 18, 2010 8:32 pm
Last Updated:Jul 30, 2010 1:49 pm
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This one is for all of the ladies out there. Will it help or hurt my chances of getting to know you if I have a picture of my cock on my profile?
I've read some profiles that specifically ask not to see them, and would prefer to see a nice face pic, instead. From a lot of the chatter in other spots, a LOT of guys have decided that it's a good idea to proudly display their manhoods. =8
What to do, what to do? My thought process has always been that if our interactions get to the point where you actually want to see my member, we should arrange for a private showing...if you catch my drift.
Here's my solution. If we're talking, and you ask for a pic, I'll be happy to oblige, otherwise, I won't inflict it on the rest of the viewing public.
Thoughts???
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Vegas Trip!
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Posted:May 7, 2010 7:15 pm
Last Updated:May 28, 2024 7:10 am
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Calling all Black Flirting'ers, where's the best place to find a hook-up while in Vegas? I'm heading out there in a couple of weeks, and am looking to have some grown-up fun. I'm not looking for any "pros", if you catch my drift, just some relaxed fun.
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Hard Core
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Posted:Apr 26, 2010 7:49 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2010 7:25 pm
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So, I used to think I was pretty hard core. Open to all kinds of experiences and not afraid to try anything new. Well, I learned my lesson big time last month with a situation I was too nervous to sit back and enjoy.
So, anyone else have that situation? Any suggestions for getting over the mental block?
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The insanity is over...for now
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Posted:Apr 5, 2010 7:19 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2010 7:31 pm
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So, I've recovered from the insanity of the last two weeks. It was quite a trip, and I'm not sure that what I stirred up has completely settled. Time will tell.
Thanks for those who have visited in the past. I'm glad I didn't scare you off.
Maybe, I'm just not cut-out for this "playing" stuff. Too anonymous, too forced, too rushed when the time to meet is so constricted. Previously, I worried too much about what would happen when I got home. My hang-expression would give me away. I'm slowly starting to realize that it doesn't really matter. If I find someone, and something happens. Then, so be it. Gotta stop worrying about everything, and not be afraid of the future.
The biggest problem I have with the "live like you're dying" philosophy is that you have to recognize and accept your own mortality. I am not ready to do that. I've always thought I was going to live forever (even though, rationally, I know it's not true).
Live and let live...
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"Snap Out of It!!"
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Posted:Mar 27, 2010 7:59 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2010 6:24 pm
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OK. So I see quite a few people read my first post. Unfortunately, one of the two people who would have been offended by it has also read it. I've been told by a couple of wise people that "it's just sex", and I'm trying to understand what that means. I'm trying to figure out how to believe that I can go out and "just have sex".
I am hardly an innocent. I've just never been comfortable enough with me and what I can bring to the situation. And, the other day, I kept focusing on what I wasn't bringing, making the situation worse.
Sometimes, I guess you just gotta say "What the fuck?" and roll with it. Stop wanting to be the hero. Stop wanting to be the savior, and just be a guy who likes to fuck.
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