"I am an alien from another planet but on my planet sex lasts for hours and the number of orgasms achieved is in direct correlation to the participants intelligence." I am divorced, recovering from a sexless marriage so I am in the "exploration" mode". I promise you would not be able to find a man in NYC even remotely like me. I'm not arrogant; I'm confident. ( read below "Being dominant" ) I'm 6'2" , " hot" looking, laid back, and very interesting to talk to. I can hold conversations on many topics and I plan to seduce your mind before anything else. I understand that mentioning sex stuff at this point is gross and a turn off so I mention it with hesitation, maybe you are interested; maybe not. I have a thick 9" cock but more important is that I am the most generous lover that you will ever meet.... Just saying ;-)) I will sexually consume you. My last partner came 16 times and when I asked if she always does that she said she has a difficult time reaching orgasm and for the last three years faked it with her partner. No way could I promise that, but it happened. I have to use special condoms. lol, I would love to buy you a drink. What harm can come from having a drink with a stranger? Being dominant. I hesitate to add this only because this term is so misunderstood. Guys are clueless. They think it means to slap a woman on the face in bed or call her a dirty fifthly slut.. Really ? The male gender inheritance is to be dominant. Cave man wants girls, drags her by hair to cave for sex. What has changed is that woman are no longer " cave woman". So the modern version of domance to me is being dominant with ones self. By being confident, self aware and "dominant, it shows and its sexy. You don't abuse your waiter to prove to your cave woman that you are dominant. That is just being an asshole. A Dominant man would be like James Bond; a gentleman. It sounds so simple but somehow men have lost that and woman I think miss that in a man. Sorry for the rant... just saying...

My Ideal Person I am selective. Race is not important but I am not a cubby chaser so slim / average is more what I like. I love large breasts but its not a deal breaker.

Open to explore ! Sex is an amazing thing and we get hung up on schedules, fear of the unknown , of being hurt. I am a nice guy , probably what you are looking for. I hope we can cut through the crap. I am sincere. Text me....

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, WW4m

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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